Forgive yourself

Forgive yourself

We seldom think about forgiving ourselves,but it is an important step in loving ourselves.You probably aren’t aware that there are things you haven’t forgiven yourself for,but if you think about it,you may find that there are.,Right now there are probably a couple of things that you feel guilty,ashamed,or angry at yourself about .
So how do you go about forgiving yourself ?Basically the same way you forgive someone else.Start by getting in touch with what it is you feel bad about .Try to understand why you did what you did and what you intentions were.More often than not,you will find that your intentions weren’t bad ; you just made a mistake or used poor judgement.
If you have done something that endangered your well-being or the well-being of others,it is still important to forgive yourself.Forgiveness is not the same as saying it was okay to do something you now know was wrong. You aren’t condoning your behavior;You are simply forgiving yourself for the poor judgement that led you to it.Try to learn something from your mistake,allow yourself to feel the pain it caused,and decide not to do it again.If you need help preventing yourself from engaging in dangerous behavior again,talk to an adult ( me ) you trust to find out the best way to get assistance.One you have gone through the process of forgiving yourself,then it is time to move on.
This advices make reminds me about us. You always said that you were not good enough for me. You just too care about the money,you just too care about me,you just too neglecting yourself,you just too paying attention on me,until... you manage to spit it out on me,i find out that both of us are really depending on what we actually don’t have. “It is always good to hate something you have,than to love something you don’t have”.I am really agree with this.. You know what ? Everytime we lose each other,pretending that we both have others,we find out that we’ll be more suffer than before. Why ? this is because we are lying each other . Who ask for break up ? Or should I say who forces who to break up ? We both have mistakes,right ? So,whenever this situation came,we both always said: “I’m so sorry to you,because after all of this time, I find out that you are not happy but suffer all of this time,I realize that I’m not the one for you, maybe you should pick her/him,because he/she will be perfect for you.” Oh please... everybody makes mistake,but the fact is,do you want to give up just like that ? or just apologizing ? or take a forwards steps and learn something valuable thing from the incident? Its depend on you! because you know what you want and you just know how to set things right !
I don’t blame you everytime we have a problems,I just blame myself how can I let you do such a things to me ? As you know,instead of hurt you more, I prefer to hurt you less... Because we are on our way to provide each other a medicine to understand each others and of course if we could, we try to not hurt anybody after that.

Forgive Others

Forgive Others
“Forgiveness is the oil of relationship” Do you agree with the statements ?
We could all do without the day we find out someone has been spreading rumors about us . No one is thrilled to find out a friend has been flirting big-time with the guy age likes or, even worse, with her boyfriend.Then these things happen ,it is natural to be angry and hurt.When the hurt is fresh,you may vow that will never forgive the person who made you sad or upset or unhappy.. But after some time passed and you have had the opportunity to talk it out or let the intensity of the pain subside,it is time to think about forgiving.
Forgiveness does not mean you are saying the behavior that hurt you was okay.And it’s quite possible that you might choose to end your relationship based on what happened.Some action are unforgivable,but most aren’t. Holding a grudge-clinging to the hurt and pain – will just make you feel worse .In order to completely heal,you have to forgive.Once you have forgiven,there is space inside your heart to feel more joy,more happiness and more love.
I had learned a valuable things from you. I was once a very mean and hard to forgive others person. I was cruel and I was always think for my own benefits and steps away of others advantages. But sometimes forgive can’t be seek or find. Because its lay within your heart.I hate people,who use to say a words of apologizing but they do nothing after that. And one of the guy is you! You think you are doing the most correct things in this world that is to let me happy,but you failed because you’re not able to make me happy instead of make me more upset and angry. Because you never do what we have discussed and you always do it on your own. Why ? I’ll let yourself find the answer .
People use to make me laugh is because they do happy with me not pretending to be happy... Takes note on that.. so whenever you think of something new to heal me or persuade me,its easy. Let yourself happy first.