不愛就不要選擇，愛了就要堅持，真正的幸福是一點一點爭取的，是一天一天積累的。
不要去傷害愛你的人，也不要讓你愛的人受傷害。
成熟不是看你的年齡有多大，而是看你的肩膀能挑起多重的責任。
愛一個人要用心，誠心相待，真心交流，恒心相守。
不要計較太多的得與失，感情沒有絕對的公平，也沒有絕對的對錯，要學會用一顆寬容的心包容對方的缺點與失誤。
在一起是一種緣分，真的好珍貴，不要輕易讓愛人哭泣傷心，好好珍惜在一起的每一分鐘，美好的回憶應該留給快樂和歡笑。
無論遇到什麼事情，不要輕易說分手，不要輕易放棄感情，下一站未必比她好。
相信你的愛人，不要總是懷疑她的誠意，親密之餘給彼此留一點自己的空間。
經常想念對方，哪怕她的壞，設身處地的多為對方著想，永遠別讓她的面孔變得陌生。
其實每個人一開始都不懂愛情，與愛人一起經歷一些事情，甚至一起經歷一些痛苦，才能變得成熟，才會懂得珍惜。
愛了就愛了，永遠不要說後悔。只是一定要記住，讓相愛的日子多一點歡樂，不要留下遺憾。
愛一個人是一件很幸福，又很辛苦的事。
我總是希望可以與我的愛人“執子之手，與子偕老”
所以我總是告訴自己：“選我所愛，愛我所選！！！既然我選擇了，我也會用心的對待，我不想讓我們彼此陌生，所以我用心等待…
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
不能为她穿上 ‘嫁衣’ 请别脱她的 ‘内衣'
“拥抱 睡觉 不做爱 那么这个男人是真的爱她...”
偶尔和朋友闲谈，谈到爱 谈到性，
他说他在网上看到这样一句话，“拥抱 睡觉 不做爱”。
我说 “如果是你，你能做到吗？”， 他说 “ 能”，
我，笑怎么能，真的能吗？
如果能，他就不会和别人刚恋爱就上床，刚上床就分手了，呵呵。。。
他告诉我世界上没有爱情，爱只不过是对依恋和习惯的一种修饰 因为寂寞才恋爱 ！
不聊了，话题结束，有些事是不适宜深聊下去的 。
回到家，却还一直想着这句话，
我问妈妈“一个人在一切条件都具备的情况下，
可能和自己心爱的人‘拥抱 睡觉 不做爱吗？’
”妈说:"能"，我问:"有可能控制得住吗，那他还算男人吗?!"
时间突然停滞了几秒,妈妈转过头和我说 "...那才是真男人..."
想到了一篇文章 。。。
和最爱的人在一起一定要做的十件事 ！
其中有一条就是 : 抱着她睡觉,但什么也不做！
什么是真爱?
爱不是性 不是欲 不是占有
如果你真的爱她,你想的不是怎么去占有她的身体,
而是会很小心翼翼的保护她,不让她受一点伤害,
哪怕是自己可能给的,也不可以！
只有出于真爱，你才能真正的设身处地的为她着想。
你才会在做每件事情前考虑到这么做会给她带来什么后果,
而不是简单的想着快感,想着占有,想着满足。
读了一篇散文，觉得有一段写的特别美 ：
"还记得那年暑假的一个晚上,我们坐在小镇河边的公园里,
傻傻的聊到凌晨3点,现在想起来心里总觉得那时侯特别美好,
在那棵桃树下，雨淅沥沥的下着,我们牵着手,我的手心里全是汗水,
但我舍不得放开,我想就这样一直牵下去,雨水淋湿了你的衬衫,
不经意间我隐约看见你湿透的胸口在夜色中象树上含苞欲放的桃花一样,
那时候我真想抱紧你,深深的吻着你,但是我没敢,是我没有勇气,
但我并没有后悔,因为那些美好的情节,
那段朦胧的初恋将永远永远地印在我的心上" ... ...
看到这里你的心中是否也有涌起一丝丝悸动?
是否也想到了一些事? 是否也想起了某个人? 我相信真爱,但我只相信一次 ！
任何人都是这样,心底总有一个永远也忘不了的她,那些清涩的故事,那些傻傻的举动 。 。 。
一旦那份至珍的感情结束了,人就变了,变的无所谓了,
变的世俗了,变的圆滑了,变的不再相信什么狗屁爱情了,
你还会像对待初恋女友那样,小心翼翼的保护着她的第一次吗?!
一次次的控制着自己挑战自己的自制力吗?
不会的,有那个必要吗? 甩了钱,一夜情有的是,做爱其实是件很廉价的事情,
如果你把它的实质只当一种情感的发泄,那它比你给的价钱更廉价,一分钱都不值 ！
如果你不爱她,大可不用考虑那么多,拍拍屁股走人呗,管她那么多,
愿意负责任,我负,不愿意负,我走人 .没有处男膜吧,呵呵。。反正我不损失什么。
女人就是衣服,随便换,天凉快的时候,我都可以不穿,有了钱有了权还怕没女人吗？
如果一个男人这样想了,是的,也许他可以拥有一切,但是----却永远无法拥有真爱了 ！
和每个人一样,也一定有一个女人住在他内心最深处,
只不过却也只能住在他自己的回忆中了,坐在一堆钱上的回忆中了 ... ...
真爱来的不容易
我们还年轻有些事情不是我们该享受的,我们也承担不起请珍惜,爱护身边的她
我们还年轻,学生时代的爱情相对于物欲横流的复杂社会是最真最纯的了，
如果你真的拥有了一份真爱，爱是寂寞撒的慌 。
当你们相爱时，一定慢一点上床，别以为脱了裤子就是爱！
如果这样都是爱，那么扣上皮带也就该拜拜。
做爱容易说爱难~！ 每个人都有初恋，初恋结婚成功率仅为千分之三！
当下大多男人会在婚前有过性行为，然而和你发生关系的女孩子成为你的新娘了吗？
没有？！冲动的惩罚更多的来自于女孩子，怀孕、流产、痛苦、伤心......
当你拥着心爱的女孩子的时候，你有没有想过，当有一天你离开她的时候，
你还能坦然的告诉自己，我曾经是爱她的，她是完整的。我给了她完整的爱？！
当你拥着初恋心爱的女孩儿的时候，望着眼前美丽的胴体，你有没有想过，
当有一天你结婚的时候，你心爱的女孩子告诉你，曾经她有过... ...
你会坦然的面对她，告诉她，没关系，你依然是我今生最美的新娘？！
而当你想起曾经的你的她的时候，你是那么爱她，而你没能给她穿上嫁衣，
你却得到了女孩儿最珍贵的东西，你能没有一丝愧疚吗？
如果你真心爱着她，请不要轻易解开你心爱女孩儿的衣服，
如果你真心爱着她，请不要轻易忘了你曾经的承诺！
如果你真心爱着她，请给她安全的臂弯，给她依靠！
如果你真心爱着她，请善待你们的每一天，让她幸福，让你们开心。
如果有一天，你将独自迎来日出和日落；
如果有一天，你的视线里再也找不到曾经的她的影子。
你却依然可以在你的天空里祝福远方的她过得幸福！
因为，你给了她完整的爱！！！！！
有句话：如果你不能给她穿上嫁衣，请停下脱她衣服的手 ...
偶尔和朋友闲谈，谈到爱 谈到性，
他说他在网上看到这样一句话，“拥抱 睡觉 不做爱”。
我说 “如果是你，你能做到吗？”， 他说 “ 能”，
我，笑怎么能，真的能吗？
如果能，他就不会和别人刚恋爱就上床，刚上床就分手了，呵呵。。。
他告诉我世界上没有爱情，爱只不过是对依恋和习惯的一种修饰 因为寂寞才恋爱 ！
不聊了，话题结束，有些事是不适宜深聊下去的 。
回到家，却还一直想着这句话，
我问妈妈“一个人在一切条件都具备的情况下，
可能和自己心爱的人‘拥抱 睡觉 不做爱吗？’
”妈说:"能"，我问:"有可能控制得住吗，那他还算男人吗?!"
时间突然停滞了几秒,妈妈转过头和我说 "...那才是真男人..."
想到了一篇文章 。。。
和最爱的人在一起一定要做的十件事 ！
其中有一条就是 : 抱着她睡觉,但什么也不做！
什么是真爱?
爱不是性 不是欲 不是占有
如果你真的爱她,你想的不是怎么去占有她的身体,
而是会很小心翼翼的保护她,不让她受一点伤害,
哪怕是自己可能给的,也不可以！
只有出于真爱，你才能真正的设身处地的为她着想。
你才会在做每件事情前考虑到这么做会给她带来什么后果,
而不是简单的想着快感,想着占有,想着满足。
读了一篇散文，觉得有一段写的特别美 ：
"还记得那年暑假的一个晚上,我们坐在小镇河边的公园里,
傻傻的聊到凌晨3点,现在想起来心里总觉得那时侯特别美好,
在那棵桃树下，雨淅沥沥的下着,我们牵着手,我的手心里全是汗水,
但我舍不得放开,我想就这样一直牵下去,雨水淋湿了你的衬衫,
不经意间我隐约看见你湿透的胸口在夜色中象树上含苞欲放的桃花一样,
那时候我真想抱紧你,深深的吻着你,但是我没敢,是我没有勇气,
但我并没有后悔,因为那些美好的情节,
那段朦胧的初恋将永远永远地印在我的心上" ... ...
看到这里你的心中是否也有涌起一丝丝悸动?
是否也想到了一些事? 是否也想起了某个人? 我相信真爱,但我只相信一次 ！
任何人都是这样,心底总有一个永远也忘不了的她,那些清涩的故事,那些傻傻的举动 。 。 。
一旦那份至珍的感情结束了,人就变了,变的无所谓了,
变的世俗了,变的圆滑了,变的不再相信什么狗屁爱情了,
你还会像对待初恋女友那样,小心翼翼的保护着她的第一次吗?!
一次次的控制着自己挑战自己的自制力吗?
不会的,有那个必要吗? 甩了钱,一夜情有的是,做爱其实是件很廉价的事情,
如果你把它的实质只当一种情感的发泄,那它比你给的价钱更廉价,一分钱都不值 ！
如果你不爱她,大可不用考虑那么多,拍拍屁股走人呗,管她那么多,
愿意负责任,我负,不愿意负,我走人 .没有处男膜吧,呵呵。。反正我不损失什么。
女人就是衣服,随便换,天凉快的时候,我都可以不穿,有了钱有了权还怕没女人吗？
如果一个男人这样想了,是的,也许他可以拥有一切,但是----却永远无法拥有真爱了 ！
和每个人一样,也一定有一个女人住在他内心最深处,
只不过却也只能住在他自己的回忆中了,坐在一堆钱上的回忆中了 ... ...
真爱来的不容易
我们还年轻有些事情不是我们该享受的,我们也承担不起请珍惜,爱护身边的她
我们还年轻,学生时代的爱情相对于物欲横流的复杂社会是最真最纯的了，
如果你真的拥有了一份真爱，爱是寂寞撒的慌 。
当你们相爱时，一定慢一点上床，别以为脱了裤子就是爱！
如果这样都是爱，那么扣上皮带也就该拜拜。
做爱容易说爱难~！ 每个人都有初恋，初恋结婚成功率仅为千分之三！
当下大多男人会在婚前有过性行为，然而和你发生关系的女孩子成为你的新娘了吗？
没有？！冲动的惩罚更多的来自于女孩子，怀孕、流产、痛苦、伤心......
当你拥着心爱的女孩子的时候，你有没有想过，当有一天你离开她的时候，
你还能坦然的告诉自己，我曾经是爱她的，她是完整的。我给了她完整的爱？！
当你拥着初恋心爱的女孩儿的时候，望着眼前美丽的胴体，你有没有想过，
当有一天你结婚的时候，你心爱的女孩子告诉你，曾经她有过... ...
你会坦然的面对她，告诉她，没关系，你依然是我今生最美的新娘？！
而当你想起曾经的你的她的时候，你是那么爱她，而你没能给她穿上嫁衣，
你却得到了女孩儿最珍贵的东西，你能没有一丝愧疚吗？
如果你真心爱着她，请不要轻易解开你心爱女孩儿的衣服，
如果你真心爱着她，请不要轻易忘了你曾经的承诺！
如果你真心爱着她，请给她安全的臂弯，给她依靠！
如果你真心爱着她，请善待你们的每一天，让她幸福，让你们开心。
如果有一天，你将独自迎来日出和日落；
如果有一天，你的视线里再也找不到曾经的她的影子。
你却依然可以在你的天空里祝福远方的她过得幸福！
因为，你给了她完整的爱！！！！！
有句话：如果你不能给她穿上嫁衣，请停下脱她衣服的手 ...
爱不是缺了就找,更不是累了就换
找一个能一起吃苦的，而不是一起享受的
找一个能一起承担的，而不是一起逃避的
找一个能对你负责的，而不是对爱情负责的
爱情是盲目的，生活是现实的
因为爱情只不过是人类为了逃避现实
而衍生的产品
为了逃避现实，我寻找爱情
为了寻找爱情，我失去真情
失去了真情，才发现早已身陷虚情.
爱，绝不是缺了就找，更不是累了就换
你以为爱情是什么？
一点点的动心，一点点的冲动，一个拥抱一个吻？
天真的人，日剧看多了，痞子蔡的文章看多了。
这也许是爱情的一部分，但绝对不是大部分
爱情的主体是生活，一起生活
你能陪她一时的难过，但你能陪她承受所有的压力吗？
你能给她身体的温度，但你能给她生活的方向吗？
你可曾想象当热情褪去，
拥抱对你已经没有任何吸引力
你们如何走下去？
距离是真爱的考验，由时间作为答案
为了你深爱的人，请做出点牺牲，守住你们的爱情
否则怎么能谈得上真正的爱情
你可以忘记以前的誓言，但要记住自己的真心。
扪心自问，你是否爱的那么深？
你愿意让两个人都受伤吗？
爱，绝不是缺了就找，更不是累了就换
生活不是一个人好好的活
是两个人如何一起好好过
但是一些客观的原因，现实中你们目前还不能在一起
难道你就这样轻易放弃，而委曲求全了吗？
难道你就不能为爱守侯吗？
你允许自己的目光如此短浅，而只看见眼前的快乐吗？
一生就这样的走完吗？
找一个能一起承担的，而不是一起逃避的
找一个能对你负责的，而不是对爱情负责的
爱情是盲目的，生活是现实的
因为爱情只不过是人类为了逃避现实
而衍生的产品
为了逃避现实，我寻找爱情
为了寻找爱情，我失去真情
失去了真情，才发现早已身陷虚情.
爱，绝不是缺了就找，更不是累了就换
你以为爱情是什么？
一点点的动心，一点点的冲动，一个拥抱一个吻？
天真的人，日剧看多了，痞子蔡的文章看多了。
这也许是爱情的一部分，但绝对不是大部分
爱情的主体是生活，一起生活
你能陪她一时的难过，但你能陪她承受所有的压力吗？
你能给她身体的温度，但你能给她生活的方向吗？
你可曾想象当热情褪去，
拥抱对你已经没有任何吸引力
你们如何走下去？
距离是真爱的考验，由时间作为答案
为了你深爱的人，请做出点牺牲，守住你们的爱情
否则怎么能谈得上真正的爱情
你可以忘记以前的誓言，但要记住自己的真心。
扪心自问，你是否爱的那么深？
你愿意让两个人都受伤吗？
爱，绝不是缺了就找，更不是累了就换
生活不是一个人好好的活
是两个人如何一起好好过
但是一些客观的原因，现实中你们目前还不能在一起
难道你就这样轻易放弃，而委曲求全了吗？
难道你就不能为爱守侯吗？
你允许自己的目光如此短浅，而只看见眼前的快乐吗？
一生就这样的走完吗？
你晓得吗？
●女生的心
常常因為你的小体贴而感动，如果你一直对她好，她可能就会喜欢你。
女生的感情很丰富，喜欢你，会毫无保留的付出，天真的认为有一天你就会懂。
女生的心很容易受伤，所以不轻易說出口，假如期望落空了，伤心难过很不好受。
女生的心很倔強，总希望你先说，
如果你也犹豫不決，或许就这样错过，再來后悔为何当初不说。
●男生的心
男生的心很脆弱，常常因为妳的小动作而心碎，如果妳一直若即若离，我怎么敢喜欢妳。
男生的心思很细密，喜欢妳，會不计一切的付出，单纯的以为妳会懂得珍惜。
男生的爱很不容易说出口，因为一旦说出口，或许再也沒有或许了，彼此悲伤见面真的很不好受。
男生的心很懦弱，总怕伤心而紧閉双唇。
或许，一打開双唇尽吐心中的话后，就会后悔当初为何不乖乖沉静在那片刻的幸福中...
●男生要的,女生要的
当男生要的，只是一个想保护她的感觉時；女生会去做的，就是一种去照顾他的感觉。
当男生要给她美好的未來而打拼時；女生要的，就是你给她多一点的安全感。
当男生觉得，她不切实际时；女生要的，可能只是一句承诺。
当男生有点承受不住，她所给的东西時；女生觉得，她是给你一点回馈。
当男生觉得，她很烦时；女生要的，只是要你多注意她。
当男生觉得，她多情時；女生只是想，不让你心存怀疑。
当男生觉得，她老是一直打电话，告诉你她的现況時；女生只是不想让你担心。
当男生觉得，她总是喜欢呼朋唤友时；女生只是想把你的好，告诉她的朋友，她过的很好。
也许，在付出的时候，並不知道对方要的是什么，
只好把自己想要的模式套在给他的東西上，
也许对方也不知道你要的是什么。把你要的告诉他吧！
有些人比较木纳，有话直说，也许会吓到你，他须要时间学习；
有些人比较明，会适当反应。
可是他们都一样，希望得到的也只是个机会。
也许，他给的东西对你來说，是负荷，
但是，给他个机会给你个机会，告诉他吧！
在真爱的路上，付出的出发点，都只是为对方好，
如果你心存怀疑，就是对自己怀疑。
重要的是，双方如何拿捏。
也许，她給你的爱表达方式不好，
但是...那女孩会慢慢成长，只要你给她時間。
越在乎的人，反而越會对他产生误会
越在乎的人，犯错反而越不能原諒他
越在乎的人，反而对他會越不客气
越在乎的人，反而越会装做不在乎
你......... 晓得吗？
常常因為你的小体贴而感动，如果你一直对她好，她可能就会喜欢你。
女生的感情很丰富，喜欢你，会毫无保留的付出，天真的认为有一天你就会懂。
女生的心很容易受伤，所以不轻易說出口，假如期望落空了，伤心难过很不好受。
女生的心很倔強，总希望你先说，
如果你也犹豫不決，或许就这样错过，再來后悔为何当初不说。
●男生的心
男生的心很脆弱，常常因为妳的小动作而心碎，如果妳一直若即若离，我怎么敢喜欢妳。
男生的心思很细密，喜欢妳，會不计一切的付出，单纯的以为妳会懂得珍惜。
男生的爱很不容易说出口，因为一旦说出口，或许再也沒有或许了，彼此悲伤见面真的很不好受。
男生的心很懦弱，总怕伤心而紧閉双唇。
或许，一打開双唇尽吐心中的话后，就会后悔当初为何不乖乖沉静在那片刻的幸福中...
●男生要的,女生要的
当男生要的，只是一个想保护她的感觉時；女生会去做的，就是一种去照顾他的感觉。
当男生要给她美好的未來而打拼時；女生要的，就是你给她多一点的安全感。
当男生觉得，她不切实际时；女生要的，可能只是一句承诺。
当男生有点承受不住，她所给的东西時；女生觉得，她是给你一点回馈。
当男生觉得，她很烦时；女生要的，只是要你多注意她。
当男生觉得，她多情時；女生只是想，不让你心存怀疑。
当男生觉得，她老是一直打电话，告诉你她的现況時；女生只是不想让你担心。
当男生觉得，她总是喜欢呼朋唤友时；女生只是想把你的好，告诉她的朋友，她过的很好。
也许，在付出的时候，並不知道对方要的是什么，
只好把自己想要的模式套在给他的東西上，
也许对方也不知道你要的是什么。把你要的告诉他吧！
有些人比较木纳，有话直说，也许会吓到你，他须要时间学习；
有些人比较明，会适当反应。
可是他们都一样，希望得到的也只是个机会。
也许，他给的东西对你來说，是负荷，
但是，给他个机会给你个机会，告诉他吧！
在真爱的路上，付出的出发点，都只是为对方好，
如果你心存怀疑，就是对自己怀疑。
重要的是，双方如何拿捏。
也许，她給你的爱表达方式不好，
但是...那女孩会慢慢成长，只要你给她時間。
越在乎的人，反而越會对他产生误会
越在乎的人，犯错反而越不能原諒他
越在乎的人，反而对他會越不客气
越在乎的人，反而越会装做不在乎
你......... 晓得吗？
關於愛的故事
有一晚，男友問女友︰「如果有個條件更好的男人追求妳，妳…會走嗎？」
女友堅定地說不會，但男友似乎很不相信。
於是，女友寫了以下的故事給男友︰
從前一位小和尚問老和尚：「甚麼是愛情？」
老和尚叫小和尚走向麥田，然後摘下一顆最大的麥，但絕對不能回頭，只能摘一顆。
小和尚走著走著，發現一顆看起來很大的麥，但他心想前面的可能有更大，因此沒有給摘下來。他抱著這個想法一直向前走，沒想到已經走完了整個麥田，但他雙手空空如也。
老和尚就跟小和尚說：「這就是愛情了。」
每個人都跟小和尚一樣，心想真的得到最好的，但沒想到時間一幌，人生已經終結。在我們人生中，總有些人比較好，條件很優厚，只是剛錯過了時間。或許會可惜，或許會悔恨，若干年後你可能會想怎麼當年瞎了眼嫁給那笨蛋？
可是，如果人生不斷的追求「最完美」，便會永遠沉淪在追求當中，看著緣份一次次的溜走。
情侶，最好的不一定合適；但能夠合適的已經是最好。
女友說︰「你在合適的時間出現，做了合適的事，在我來說已經是無可取替的好了。」
女友堅定地說不會，但男友似乎很不相信。
於是，女友寫了以下的故事給男友︰
從前一位小和尚問老和尚：「甚麼是愛情？」
老和尚叫小和尚走向麥田，然後摘下一顆最大的麥，但絕對不能回頭，只能摘一顆。
小和尚走著走著，發現一顆看起來很大的麥，但他心想前面的可能有更大，因此沒有給摘下來。他抱著這個想法一直向前走，沒想到已經走完了整個麥田，但他雙手空空如也。
老和尚就跟小和尚說：「這就是愛情了。」
每個人都跟小和尚一樣，心想真的得到最好的，但沒想到時間一幌，人生已經終結。在我們人生中，總有些人比較好，條件很優厚，只是剛錯過了時間。或許會可惜，或許會悔恨，若干年後你可能會想怎麼當年瞎了眼嫁給那笨蛋？
可是，如果人生不斷的追求「最完美」，便會永遠沉淪在追求當中，看著緣份一次次的溜走。
情侶，最好的不一定合適；但能夠合適的已經是最好。
女友說︰「你在合適的時間出現，做了合適的事，在我來說已經是無可取替的好了。」
女孩最在乎什么，说的太对了
1.女孩子并不在乎你有没有钱，她在乎的是你会不会发奋努力改变现状；
2.女孩子并不在乎与你生活在一起会遇到困难，她在乎的是你会不会迎难而上，不逃避；
3.女孩子并不在乎你长得有多帅，她在乎的是你能不能给她足够的安全感；
4.女孩子并不在乎你跟你的异性朋友有多好，她在乎的是你能不能一心一意对她好；
5.女孩子并不在乎你送她的礼物有多贵，她在乎的是你会不会时常给她个惊喜；
6.女孩子并不在乎你的志向有多远大，她在乎的是你是不是一个老实做人、踏实做事的人；
7.女孩子并不在乎你有多浪漫，她在乎的是能不能从生活的点滴中感受到你的爱；
8.女孩子并不在乎你的人可以每时每刻都陪在她身边，她在乎的是你的心可以无时无刻不想着她；
9.女孩子并不在乎你在物质生活上给她多大的满足，她在乎的往往是一句窝心的话，那似乎比什么都重要；
10.女孩子并不在乎你现在的境况如何，她在乎的是你能不能让她看到你的未来；
11.女孩子并不在乎你跟她的关系有多亲密，她在乎的是你会不会负责到底；
12.女孩子并不在乎可以分享你的快乐，她在乎的是可不可以分担你的忧愁；
13.女孩子并不在乎跟你在一起吃苦，她在乎的是陪你走到最后的是不是她。
2.女孩子并不在乎与你生活在一起会遇到困难，她在乎的是你会不会迎难而上，不逃避；
3.女孩子并不在乎你长得有多帅，她在乎的是你能不能给她足够的安全感；
4.女孩子并不在乎你跟你的异性朋友有多好，她在乎的是你能不能一心一意对她好；
5.女孩子并不在乎你送她的礼物有多贵，她在乎的是你会不会时常给她个惊喜；
6.女孩子并不在乎你的志向有多远大，她在乎的是你是不是一个老实做人、踏实做事的人；
7.女孩子并不在乎你有多浪漫，她在乎的是能不能从生活的点滴中感受到你的爱；
8.女孩子并不在乎你的人可以每时每刻都陪在她身边，她在乎的是你的心可以无时无刻不想着她；
9.女孩子并不在乎你在物质生活上给她多大的满足，她在乎的往往是一句窝心的话，那似乎比什么都重要；
10.女孩子并不在乎你现在的境况如何，她在乎的是你能不能让她看到你的未来；
11.女孩子并不在乎你跟她的关系有多亲密，她在乎的是你会不会负责到底；
12.女孩子并不在乎可以分享你的快乐，她在乎的是可不可以分担你的忧愁；
13.女孩子并不在乎跟你在一起吃苦，她在乎的是陪你走到最后的是不是她。
Thursday, March 25, 2010
Words From My Heart
Finally,i got the nerve to post something today...
Yesterday was awful but the past 2 days was much more awful but i'm very happy that i finally know what i really wanted.
I realized I was too selfish without informing anyone that i have to be alone and give myself a little time to think what is best and what is the most important in my life.
But first,i still want to apologize to my best friend-Ting2. I know she is the one who was very worry about me. Not seeing a day is like a weird day for her. she was probably just freaking out like " oh my God, where the hell she's going? Dis she doing just find ? what am i going to do? why she didn't answer my call? Why she off her phone? "
Maybe, she'll just totally gone mad and pissing off!. Sorry Ting... I'm really sorry. That day was a great day for me to be alone. You know i like rain especially when it is March... So, i made up my mind to go to the place which i think is very good to think,to refresh and just to give myself a break. Thanks God, i think a lot.
And For Sam,i'm sorry too. i know you probably thinking " is she going out with him again? Oh my God! Do i did something wrong last night? where the hell she's going? Why i can't call her? I knew your first reaction will be like going out with him cause the faith you've with me is not strong enough to ensure that i'll never betrayed you. Thats you! from the beginning till the end. Never change and still so doubting.
For mom, i know she's not too worry about me because she was busy with her shop and not really care about me since the shop is opened. but nevermind,i'm used too it. I never had the negative thinking about you cause you always did what is best for me . Thanks MOM.
And For Dad... hmm,he's the one who is having the greatest faith in myself. He never doubt whatever i do, he never worried about who i meet and who i talk to and even where i'll be. thanks Dad for the faith you have in me. I promise i'll stay cute and be a good girl. Stay Cool too! :)
Now,its time to convey what is on my mind. lets start with the family first. God is first but i know He knows what i'm doing. Seems so hard to leave this family when i;m thinking i'm going to leave this home someday. I don't know when will that "someday " be but perhaps its coming soon. This home gives so much memories to me. My friends had been here,my boyfriend... and slowly one by one is leaving this home, First start with my eldest sister and then me...What i trying to say is i'm worry about my mom and my dad. They had been working so hard at shop and i know they are tired once they come back home so i hope i made their work easy by make sure i did my "housekeeping " everyday.but who is going to replace me when i'm not here? My brother? oh no, its like its very impossible for him to sweeps the floor, to mop the floor. Just looking at his bedroom and you'll know what i mean. he didn't even care about his bedroom's cleanliness... and now we have to talk about house? FAINT!every night i pray,he will realize what life is all about. Not just the games and his GF! Oh God, please send his the alarm or sms or call to ask him change....
Second, my study...I want to be a doctor... I'm thinking if only i got the money,everything will like "tap" (clap your hand) but not, this is me, i'm a middle class person. i lived a life which is just enough to live. I got 6 A's and so what? do i get the right like any other malay students? NO, this life is so unfair! I'm not smart, if you said i'm smart, i answer you that i'm not smart. i'm not born to be genius not even to get A without working hard. i get every knowledge by reading,do revision and memorizing and i'm not the one who can get straight A without revision every chapter at least one weeks before any exam.So, please... the government got to do something on this. God, help me, guide me...
third,relationship. I went to Mesilau that day. its not raining there but its a gloomy day. its like the day was having the same mood with me. We both sad and we both wanted to cry but we don't cry. we hang on and stay tough! Sam,there are a lot of problem between us. either you realize it or not there are a lot of problems between us!. i know you still worry about my relationship with him. You ask me did i called him recently? did i go out with him? Did i meet him?So what if i called him? so what if i sms with him? and so what if i go out with him? you jealous? If you keep on worry about my relationship with him , leave me! this is not our relationship is going to continue if you continue to check me... I know what i do and i know what makes you feel hurt but you just can't stop me from finding him just because you scares something is going to happen between us. You gotta trust me. You said you trust me, but what have you did to me? you treat me like a kid. You doubt who i am sms with and you doubt everything when it comes to him. Please, i have enough of it.He is my first love, i admit i still can't forget him. If you ask me, if i still love him. Honestly i admit i still love him! there is no way i can forget him by taking one year or just 2 years. I'm sorry, i can't do it. You may think i'm a liar when i said i still love him. but don't you see i've changed a lot because of you. I'm putting much much much efforts to forget him. My consciousness is still good,working. I know when i talk to him, i can talk like i used to when i'm with him, i can't look the way i used to look at him. I know all of that. I know all the barrier between a friend and a boyfriend!and everytime we argue,please don't let other people involved in our problem. You know what i mean. this is our problem, so solve it yourself. Don't let other people worry about you,especially your aunt. think about it. and then the last thing is about your mom. i don't want to repeat this but strictly i want to say i wont respect someone who is don't respect me at all. if you said your mom is like that, so do i, i'm like this.
I know there a lot of thing that i can satisfy you. I'm not pretty, i;m not cute. But all i can promise you is that i am sincere,i'm honest everytime i am with you and i precious this relationship. I know we've been through a lot of thing but this is not the best reason to let me stay by your side. Lastly, i love you. You know i love you. although i didn't tell you that i love you much often as you do but deep in my heart there is always a love for you. I beg you not to let me suffer anymore. Please it hurts me so much.
Love,
Sharon Lim
Yesterday was awful but the past 2 days was much more awful but i'm very happy that i finally know what i really wanted.
I realized I was too selfish without informing anyone that i have to be alone and give myself a little time to think what is best and what is the most important in my life.
But first,i still want to apologize to my best friend-Ting2. I know she is the one who was very worry about me. Not seeing a day is like a weird day for her. she was probably just freaking out like " oh my God, where the hell she's going? Dis she doing just find ? what am i going to do? why she didn't answer my call? Why she off her phone? "
Maybe, she'll just totally gone mad and pissing off!. Sorry Ting... I'm really sorry. That day was a great day for me to be alone. You know i like rain especially when it is March... So, i made up my mind to go to the place which i think is very good to think,to refresh and just to give myself a break. Thanks God, i think a lot.
And For Sam,i'm sorry too. i know you probably thinking " is she going out with him again? Oh my God! Do i did something wrong last night? where the hell she's going? Why i can't call her? I knew your first reaction will be like going out with him cause the faith you've with me is not strong enough to ensure that i'll never betrayed you. Thats you! from the beginning till the end. Never change and still so doubting.
For mom, i know she's not too worry about me because she was busy with her shop and not really care about me since the shop is opened. but nevermind,i'm used too it. I never had the negative thinking about you cause you always did what is best for me . Thanks MOM.
And For Dad... hmm,he's the one who is having the greatest faith in myself. He never doubt whatever i do, he never worried about who i meet and who i talk to and even where i'll be. thanks Dad for the faith you have in me. I promise i'll stay cute and be a good girl. Stay Cool too! :)
Now,its time to convey what is on my mind. lets start with the family first. God is first but i know He knows what i'm doing. Seems so hard to leave this family when i;m thinking i'm going to leave this home someday. I don't know when will that "someday " be but perhaps its coming soon. This home gives so much memories to me. My friends had been here,my boyfriend... and slowly one by one is leaving this home, First start with my eldest sister and then me...What i trying to say is i'm worry about my mom and my dad. They had been working so hard at shop and i know they are tired once they come back home so i hope i made their work easy by make sure i did my "housekeeping " everyday.but who is going to replace me when i'm not here? My brother? oh no, its like its very impossible for him to sweeps the floor, to mop the floor. Just looking at his bedroom and you'll know what i mean. he didn't even care about his bedroom's cleanliness... and now we have to talk about house? FAINT!every night i pray,he will realize what life is all about. Not just the games and his GF! Oh God, please send his the alarm or sms or call to ask him change....
Second, my study...I want to be a doctor... I'm thinking if only i got the money,everything will like "tap" (clap your hand) but not, this is me, i'm a middle class person. i lived a life which is just enough to live. I got 6 A's and so what? do i get the right like any other malay students? NO, this life is so unfair! I'm not smart, if you said i'm smart, i answer you that i'm not smart. i'm not born to be genius not even to get A without working hard. i get every knowledge by reading,do revision and memorizing and i'm not the one who can get straight A without revision every chapter at least one weeks before any exam.So, please... the government got to do something on this. God, help me, guide me...
third,relationship. I went to Mesilau that day. its not raining there but its a gloomy day. its like the day was having the same mood with me. We both sad and we both wanted to cry but we don't cry. we hang on and stay tough! Sam,there are a lot of problem between us. either you realize it or not there are a lot of problems between us!. i know you still worry about my relationship with him. You ask me did i called him recently? did i go out with him? Did i meet him?So what if i called him? so what if i sms with him? and so what if i go out with him? you jealous? If you keep on worry about my relationship with him , leave me! this is not our relationship is going to continue if you continue to check me... I know what i do and i know what makes you feel hurt but you just can't stop me from finding him just because you scares something is going to happen between us. You gotta trust me. You said you trust me, but what have you did to me? you treat me like a kid. You doubt who i am sms with and you doubt everything when it comes to him. Please, i have enough of it.He is my first love, i admit i still can't forget him. If you ask me, if i still love him. Honestly i admit i still love him! there is no way i can forget him by taking one year or just 2 years. I'm sorry, i can't do it. You may think i'm a liar when i said i still love him. but don't you see i've changed a lot because of you. I'm putting much much much efforts to forget him. My consciousness is still good,working. I know when i talk to him, i can talk like i used to when i'm with him, i can't look the way i used to look at him. I know all of that. I know all the barrier between a friend and a boyfriend!and everytime we argue,please don't let other people involved in our problem. You know what i mean. this is our problem, so solve it yourself. Don't let other people worry about you,especially your aunt. think about it. and then the last thing is about your mom. i don't want to repeat this but strictly i want to say i wont respect someone who is don't respect me at all. if you said your mom is like that, so do i, i'm like this.
I know there a lot of thing that i can satisfy you. I'm not pretty, i;m not cute. But all i can promise you is that i am sincere,i'm honest everytime i am with you and i precious this relationship. I know we've been through a lot of thing but this is not the best reason to let me stay by your side. Lastly, i love you. You know i love you. although i didn't tell you that i love you much often as you do but deep in my heart there is always a love for you. I beg you not to let me suffer anymore. Please it hurts me so much.
Love,
Sharon Lim
Wednesday, March 24, 2010
Again
Tonight, i cried again... i don't know how to describe my feeling right now.... and i don't understand what i actually wanted for myself... but i think at least my bf can help me on that... but em, i guess he's not going to do so...haih, does boys always like that? they just want to see how cute you are, how pretty you are and how beautiful and even worst how sexy you are... sometimes,i think about how and why i have to be like this. at first, i should just get over it and just pick the new one... yeah,because they don't even appreciate you. all they know is to comment and keep on saying you should do this on your that, do that on your this and act like this when people say like this... I thought he's not that type but after all what I've been through,plus tonight, i know who he is becoming of... its pissing me off... my heart broken... its like it being punch into a hole.what really people are becoming of when you are just this? i mean i'm just "this", and i cant be " that "...
I might being ungrateful right now but what i feel cant stop myself from saying some ungrateful like this. Do i have to put much efforts on something like that? Do i have to? Now i know that " sincere " is not just the element that you need in relationship. they sometimes need satisfaction. I'm 18 and i think its normal to think of the negative side right now... i always jealous and proud of my friends cause they are having such a big boobs... you know what i mean? and i do have pretty peer that loved by everyone but i dont know how their relationship are but this female booster things is just not my style....Today, my bf keep telling me what is lack in myself... i cant get over it... maybe he's not the one for me and yes maybe i should just let him go.
At first,
he's the one who is saying that he is okay with " this "
Things change and people change,
He is starting to ask for "that"
and i said i just cant be "that"
cause "this" is me and "that" is her,
and so, i said, you can have " that "
and please let me go!
I might being ungrateful right now but what i feel cant stop myself from saying some ungrateful like this. Do i have to put much efforts on something like that? Do i have to? Now i know that " sincere " is not just the element that you need in relationship. they sometimes need satisfaction. I'm 18 and i think its normal to think of the negative side right now... i always jealous and proud of my friends cause they are having such a big boobs... you know what i mean? and i do have pretty peer that loved by everyone but i dont know how their relationship are but this female booster things is just not my style....Today, my bf keep telling me what is lack in myself... i cant get over it... maybe he's not the one for me and yes maybe i should just let him go.
At first,
he's the one who is saying that he is okay with " this "
Things change and people change,
He is starting to ask for "that"
and i said i just cant be "that"
cause "this" is me and "that" is her,
and so, i said, you can have " that "
and please let me go!
Friday, March 5, 2010
hi guys, i'm here to post something. I hope you guys can leave some comments. So that i know how's your opinions.
Today,when i took dinner with my mom along with my little brother, we talked and discussed something about my future. You might ask why where is my dad... Hee,my dad always take his dinner earlier than anyone of us. Its kinda habit for him... Okay.continue my story. When we ate, i tell mom how scary i am because the SPM results is coming out and its on a date,six days left. My mom said "you'd study and did your best. Besides,you spend most of your time to study,why can't you get good grades?" i was like ... Yeah,mom was right,why i'm freaking scared? I think its common and i believe everyone scares too... Then suddenly,she talked about my boyfriend. She said when i'm going to marry him,i'll know how hard to earn money and what life really is. My head switched to what my best friend had told me yesterday and this evening. Then,i said i'm not going to marry him until every problems that we'd faced are settled. And i added if i really get the chance to study at the unitesity and found someone brilliant and greater than him as well as falling in love with the guy i've met,i'll leave him... Then,my mom was like"why you have to couple with him if you don't want to marry him?" is not that i don't want to marry him,is i'm not guarantee... Things change and people always change. In fact,me and him have to get through a lot of obstacles and circumstances. No one know if we can be together till that day when i'm going to walking through the aisle and say "i do". Then , i replied my mom"mom,i know you like him and i know how much you wish i can marry to him. And i know you care what people are talking about us. Yes,he was always here and everyone saw i'm with him,but it doesn't mean i have to be with him and guarantee and just lock myself to be his forever. I have my right. You think i have to wait and just marry the guy who comes to house and discuss about the engagement and proposal like you used to when you were young? We don't have that tradition now... I'm me,i have right." after i finished my words,i realized how over i am and i saw mom don't wish to continue the conversation already. I hurt her. Because thats how my mom get married. My mom didn't couple with my dad for a long time. They just did the traditional one. My heart was aching, and i can see how bad my mom feel...
See,me and my mom talked a lot about this and its like today is the thousand times... And no wonder i get mad when we talked about this... Because mom insists to her decision,but so do i. I hope she understands my condition. I'm happy that my mom blesses my relationship with him but i've to admit i can't stand any longer if his mother keep talking my bad thing as if i did a big big mistakes. His mother keeps on having a bad impression about me... And everytime there is a problem,i'm the one who has to bare the pain. Even my boyfriend didn't stand by my side... I know why he did that because thats his mother but people makes mistakes,so do his mother... Why he didn't corrected her... Haih, everytime i prayed to God.. I shared and i let him decide the time and the solution. I'm hoping so that God gives a way for this problem. But i guess the time haven't come yet. I afraid when God prepares the way, i'm on my way to give up cause its very hard to endure all the pain...
Mom,i hope you understand me. I'm so sorry for being rude to you. I love you mom,a lot...forgive me.
Today,when i took dinner with my mom along with my little brother, we talked and discussed something about my future. You might ask why where is my dad... Hee,my dad always take his dinner earlier than anyone of us. Its kinda habit for him... Okay.continue my story. When we ate, i tell mom how scary i am because the SPM results is coming out and its on a date,six days left. My mom said "you'd study and did your best. Besides,you spend most of your time to study,why can't you get good grades?" i was like ... Yeah,mom was right,why i'm freaking scared? I think its common and i believe everyone scares too... Then suddenly,she talked about my boyfriend. She said when i'm going to marry him,i'll know how hard to earn money and what life really is. My head switched to what my best friend had told me yesterday and this evening. Then,i said i'm not going to marry him until every problems that we'd faced are settled. And i added if i really get the chance to study at the unitesity and found someone brilliant and greater than him as well as falling in love with the guy i've met,i'll leave him... Then,my mom was like"why you have to couple with him if you don't want to marry him?" is not that i don't want to marry him,is i'm not guarantee... Things change and people always change. In fact,me and him have to get through a lot of obstacles and circumstances. No one know if we can be together till that day when i'm going to walking through the aisle and say "i do". Then , i replied my mom"mom,i know you like him and i know how much you wish i can marry to him. And i know you care what people are talking about us. Yes,he was always here and everyone saw i'm with him,but it doesn't mean i have to be with him and guarantee and just lock myself to be his forever. I have my right. You think i have to wait and just marry the guy who comes to house and discuss about the engagement and proposal like you used to when you were young? We don't have that tradition now... I'm me,i have right." after i finished my words,i realized how over i am and i saw mom don't wish to continue the conversation already. I hurt her. Because thats how my mom get married. My mom didn't couple with my dad for a long time. They just did the traditional one. My heart was aching, and i can see how bad my mom feel...
See,me and my mom talked a lot about this and its like today is the thousand times... And no wonder i get mad when we talked about this... Because mom insists to her decision,but so do i. I hope she understands my condition. I'm happy that my mom blesses my relationship with him but i've to admit i can't stand any longer if his mother keep talking my bad thing as if i did a big big mistakes. His mother keeps on having a bad impression about me... And everytime there is a problem,i'm the one who has to bare the pain. Even my boyfriend didn't stand by my side... I know why he did that because thats his mother but people makes mistakes,so do his mother... Why he didn't corrected her... Haih, everytime i prayed to God.. I shared and i let him decide the time and the solution. I'm hoping so that God gives a way for this problem. But i guess the time haven't come yet. I afraid when God prepares the way, i'm on my way to give up cause its very hard to endure all the pain...
Mom,i hope you understand me. I'm so sorry for being rude to you. I love you mom,a lot...forgive me.
Sunday, February 7, 2010
I Give Up
I've decided to give up today
On what I've tried to start
Passion fills my memories
And failure fills my heart
Deep down I know the feelings
And its true they'll never change
Even if you hated me
My love would still remain
I now sit here regretting
For what could've been in reach
Today I see there's nothing left
What could've been achieved
Now as time starts winding down
I now its gone
I sought to have what I could not
My dusk has turned to dawn
I know that you don't realize
The truth held in my heart
But the truth we are nothing
And we will be like this forever
I am giving up on you...
On what I've tried to start
Passion fills my memories
And failure fills my heart
Deep down I know the feelings
And its true they'll never change
Even if you hated me
My love would still remain
I now sit here regretting
For what could've been in reach
Today I see there's nothing left
What could've been achieved
Now as time starts winding down
I now its gone
I sought to have what I could not
My dusk has turned to dawn
I know that you don't realize
The truth held in my heart
But the truth we are nothing
And we will be like this forever
I am giving up on you...
I Must Go
It is time to know
I am not the woman in your life
I can see how much your life accompanied by how many woman you want
I have to go
so that there is no suffer to know
and i believe life will bring me to hope
I must go,
cause you have your own style to live and i have mine,
I'd seen how much you can replace myself although your lip says Not
I can see how much you can conduct yourself with every conversation with others...
I am not yours....
So, I'll Go.
I Have to Go and I Must Go
Not to continue in deceiving you but
to let you meet the woman you know
i have to go
you may not understand what i have to do
time will pass and you may know
I Must Go
to meet my hero too,perhaps...
but this time there is no suffer to know
so i will go
i learned from my past state
to let hope cover my soul
So here i am, i am leaving...
I am not the woman in your life
I can see how much your life accompanied by how many woman you want
I have to go
so that there is no suffer to know
and i believe life will bring me to hope
I must go,
cause you have your own style to live and i have mine,
I'd seen how much you can replace myself although your lip says Not
I can see how much you can conduct yourself with every conversation with others...
I am not yours....
So, I'll Go.
I Have to Go and I Must Go
Not to continue in deceiving you but
to let you meet the woman you know
i have to go
you may not understand what i have to do
time will pass and you may know
I Must Go
to meet my hero too,perhaps...
but this time there is no suffer to know
so i will go
i learned from my past state
to let hope cover my soul
So here i am, i am leaving...
Friday, February 5, 2010
No one Know
I face the world with a smile,
no one knows what is hid inside.
They see only happiness,
they cant see the tears I've cried.
When I am alone I hurt,
because here I do it well.
In front of all the watchful eyes my heaven turns to hell.
The judge and jury awaits me,
everyone has a say.
In a life that hangs suspended for yet another day.
Who are they to judge if what I have done is right or wrong?
In the end I gave him up, but inside still sing his song.
I don't know how to find the strength I thought I had.
If only I could play tough it wouldn't be so bad.
They say that life goes on and someday I'll smile again.
But, how do they know my pain without being where I've been?
I've traveled so far from home, and can't find my way back.
Somewhere along the way I must have jumped the track.
no one knows what is hid inside.
They see only happiness,
they cant see the tears I've cried.
When I am alone I hurt,
because here I do it well.
In front of all the watchful eyes my heaven turns to hell.
The judge and jury awaits me,
everyone has a say.
In a life that hangs suspended for yet another day.
Who are they to judge if what I have done is right or wrong?
In the end I gave him up, but inside still sing his song.
I don't know how to find the strength I thought I had.
If only I could play tough it wouldn't be so bad.
They say that life goes on and someday I'll smile again.
But, how do they know my pain without being where I've been?
I've traveled so far from home, and can't find my way back.
Somewhere along the way I must have jumped the track.
Thursday, February 4, 2010
Crying never seems to help
I take all this pain...
I put it in rhymes...
Then you get the chance for the very first time.
You get to feel the pain...there's stuff inside me...
like all this hate...
I don't know if I can handle...
I don't know if I can carry this weight...
I just wanna let go...
I just wanna be free...
it's time for all this hate...
to finally leave me
My life is full of empty promises and broken dreams...
I'm hoping things will look up, and right when they do...
Do you know what it's like to be me?
Go through something not everyone can see?
Do you know what it's like to walk in my shoes?
Please stop judging me simply cause I'm not you...
Everything is changing and I don't feel the same.
I'm slipping through the cracks of floors I thought were strong.
I'm trying to find a place where I feel like I belong...
I think I'd do better on my own, no friends, no fights,just me...
alone...
A strong girl keeps her stuff in line-and with tears running...
She still manages to spit the simple words "I'm fine."
I put it in rhymes...
Then you get the chance for the very first time.
You get to feel the pain...there's stuff inside me...
like all this hate...
I don't know if I can handle...
I don't know if I can carry this weight...
I just wanna let go...
I just wanna be free...
it's time for all this hate...
to finally leave me
My life is full of empty promises and broken dreams...
I'm hoping things will look up, and right when they do...
Do you know what it's like to be me?
Go through something not everyone can see?
Do you know what it's like to walk in my shoes?
Please stop judging me simply cause I'm not you...
Everything is changing and I don't feel the same.
I'm slipping through the cracks of floors I thought were strong.
I'm trying to find a place where I feel like I belong...
I think I'd do better on my own, no friends, no fights,just me...
alone...
A strong girl keeps her stuff in line-and with tears running...
She still manages to spit the simple words "I'm fine."
No one will ever know
No one will ever know, the pain I feel inside....
There's this girl in the mirror, I wonder who she is. Sometimes I think I know her and sometimes I wish I did. There is a story in her eyes, lullabies, and goodbye. When she's looking back at me I can tell...she's hurting inside.
It's getting colder now and the darkness consumes me. Depression is slowly creeping up. Maybe one day you'll actually care about me.
Never underestimate the pain of a person because the truth is everyone is struggling. It's just some people hide it better than others.
She smiles with all that she has left, yet tears are left un-dried. And though she's got so much to say, she bottles it up inside. If you look past her broken eyes to a shadow no one sees, a disguise so you won't recognize, the girl is really me...
There's this girl in the mirror, I wonder who she is. Sometimes I think I know her and sometimes I wish I did. There is a story in her eyes, lullabies, and goodbye. When she's looking back at me I can tell...she's hurting inside.
It's getting colder now and the darkness consumes me. Depression is slowly creeping up. Maybe one day you'll actually care about me.
Never underestimate the pain of a person because the truth is everyone is struggling. It's just some people hide it better than others.
She smiles with all that she has left, yet tears are left un-dried. And though she's got so much to say, she bottles it up inside. If you look past her broken eyes to a shadow no one sees, a disguise so you won't recognize, the girl is really me...
Monday, February 1, 2010
good morning
Good morning and God bless
On this most wonderful of days
God given, lit by sunlight
Shafting down in golden rays.
The heart sings out its wondrous joy
In choir with birdsong sweet,
And all one's love can employ
This beauteous day to greet.
Oh skies of azure
Blue as any skies could ever be,
How glad I am to meet this day
How well blessed to be me!
On this most wonderful of days
God given, lit by sunlight
Shafting down in golden rays.
The heart sings out its wondrous joy
In choir with birdsong sweet,
And all one's love can employ
This beauteous day to greet.
Oh skies of azure
Blue as any skies could ever be,
How glad I am to meet this day
How well blessed to be me!
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
She Falls For You
She has nothing left to say
Not a spark worth fighting for
and it's killing her to let him go
Though chasing another makes him already gone
She cries out for him at night
No longer is he holding her side
holding her hand
Even dropped her heart
Amongst others in his storm
False hope he'd ever care for her
She left the light on downstairs
So he'd let himself in
Woke up each time
Falling for him further,
dissappointment entwined
She has nothing left to say
And so he let's her go
Unable to hear her heart screaming
his name
On her lips
No matter who she talks to
So she holds her breath
With nothing more to say
They let their friendship fall away
Not a spark worth fighting for
and it's killing her to let him go
Though chasing another makes him already gone
She cries out for him at night
No longer is he holding her side
holding her hand
Even dropped her heart
Amongst others in his storm
False hope he'd ever care for her
She left the light on downstairs
So he'd let himself in
Woke up each time
Falling for him further,
dissappointment entwined
She has nothing left to say
And so he let's her go
Unable to hear her heart screaming
his name
On her lips
No matter who she talks to
So she holds her breath
With nothing more to say
They let their friendship fall away
Friend
Where will I go, I just don't know,
when my heart is heavy and feeling low.
Will I chase after that rainbows end?
or find sweet comfort with a friend.
For storms will gather, storms will go
but theres one thing that I know...
Sharing moments here with you,
my sky is bright and always blue.
So I'll just sit here and stay a while
you make me laugh, you make me smile.
You make my heart take wings and fly,
each time we're together, you and I....
when my heart is heavy and feeling low.
Will I chase after that rainbows end?
or find sweet comfort with a friend.
For storms will gather, storms will go
but theres one thing that I know...
Sharing moments here with you,
my sky is bright and always blue.
So I'll just sit here and stay a while
you make me laugh, you make me smile.
You make my heart take wings and fly,
each time we're together, you and I....
Listen and please don't say a word.
Would you just listen and please don't say a word, just yet,
I'd like you to think back to the very first time we met,
How you felt around me? The memories we shared,
And just remember that once upon a time, you really cared.
Now think about how we parted, and how much I cried,
But please don't speak, remember that I never ever lied,
That I told you the honest truth about why we were to split,
But now I'd like you to know that my heart broke bit by bit.
The pain was deep, unbearable and painful, for so many years,
I'll never forget all the sadness, all the uncontrollable tears,
Slowly I am rebuilding my life, I am content with what I've got,
And although it is hard I am beginning to forget what I have not.
You were a special part of my life that I will never forget,
A part of my life that broke my heart, but that I don't regret,
You gave me some happy memories that I'll keep in my heart,
Although sometimes I wish that you and I didn't have to part.
You were my first love and my true love, that will always be so,
After all of the heartache, sadness and never ending pain, I know,
You and I had something special and that will never change,
Because I love you and loving someone else will always seem strange.
Would you just listen and please don't say a word, not ever,
I'd like you to remember that once upon a time, we said forever,
That I had hopes and dreams, that I was the one who threw them away,
And this is something I will always regret until my dying day.
I'd like you to think back to the very first time we met,
How you felt around me? The memories we shared,
And just remember that once upon a time, you really cared.
Now think about how we parted, and how much I cried,
But please don't speak, remember that I never ever lied,
That I told you the honest truth about why we were to split,
But now I'd like you to know that my heart broke bit by bit.
The pain was deep, unbearable and painful, for so many years,
I'll never forget all the sadness, all the uncontrollable tears,
Slowly I am rebuilding my life, I am content with what I've got,
And although it is hard I am beginning to forget what I have not.
You were a special part of my life that I will never forget,
A part of my life that broke my heart, but that I don't regret,
You gave me some happy memories that I'll keep in my heart,
Although sometimes I wish that you and I didn't have to part.
You were my first love and my true love, that will always be so,
After all of the heartache, sadness and never ending pain, I know,
You and I had something special and that will never change,
Because I love you and loving someone else will always seem strange.
Would you just listen and please don't say a word, not ever,
I'd like you to remember that once upon a time, we said forever,
That I had hopes and dreams, that I was the one who threw them away,
And this is something I will always regret until my dying day.
Follow Directions
Read James 1:19–25
Jeff was anxious to get the baby’s walker assembled. There was a game starting on TV, but a promise was a promise. He quickly skimmed the directions and laid them aside. “This will be a piece of cake!” he announced with glee.
It was not until he heard the seat snap into place that he realized something was not right. The seat was on backwards. No matter how hard he tried he could not separate the pieces. It was at that point he saw the warning on the label: Read all directions carefully before beginning assembly. Locking wing nuts used! Jeff had a sinking feeling that he had blown it.
Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says (James 1:22).
Many times we read God’s Word and do not pay attention to what it says. We act like life will be self-explanatory. However, some actions in life bring irreversible consequences. Let us not wait for that sinking feeling to realize we need to read God’s directions more carefully—and do what His Word says.
Challenge for Today: Do not just read the Bible out of habit. Read to understand, and follow through on what God is saying.
By the name of Our Lord,Jesus Christ, I post.
Jeff was anxious to get the baby’s walker assembled. There was a game starting on TV, but a promise was a promise. He quickly skimmed the directions and laid them aside. “This will be a piece of cake!” he announced with glee.
It was not until he heard the seat snap into place that he realized something was not right. The seat was on backwards. No matter how hard he tried he could not separate the pieces. It was at that point he saw the warning on the label: Read all directions carefully before beginning assembly. Locking wing nuts used! Jeff had a sinking feeling that he had blown it.
Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says (James 1:22).
Many times we read God’s Word and do not pay attention to what it says. We act like life will be self-explanatory. However, some actions in life bring irreversible consequences. Let us not wait for that sinking feeling to realize we need to read God’s directions more carefully—and do what His Word says.
Challenge for Today: Do not just read the Bible out of habit. Read to understand, and follow through on what God is saying.
By the name of Our Lord,Jesus Christ, I post.
Friday, January 22, 2010
ATTITUDE
The 92 year-old petite, well-poised and proud lady, who is fully dressed each morning by eight o'clock, with her hair fashionably coifed and makeup perfectly applied, even though she is legally blind, moved to a nursing home today.
Her husband of 70 years passed away, making the move necessary. After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her room was ready. As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of her tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on her window. "I love it," she stated with the enthusiasm of an 8-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.
"Mrs. Jones, you haven't seen the room . . . just wait."
"That doesn't have anything to do with it," she replied.
"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged. It's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it. It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice. I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do. Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open, I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I have stored away just for this time in my life. Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories. And thank you for your part in filling my memory bank. I am still depositing."
Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
Her husband of 70 years passed away, making the move necessary. After many hours of waiting patiently in the lobby of the nursing home, she smiled sweetly when told her room was ready. As she maneuvered her walker to the elevator, I provided a visual description of her tiny room, including the eyelet sheets that had been hung on her window. "I love it," she stated with the enthusiasm of an 8-year-old having just been presented with a new puppy.
"Mrs. Jones, you haven't seen the room . . . just wait."
"That doesn't have anything to do with it," she replied.
"Happiness is something you decide on ahead of time. Whether I like my room or not doesn't depend on how the furniture is arranged. It's how I arrange my mind. I already decided to love it. It's a decision I make every morning when I wake up. I have a choice. I can spend the day in bed recounting the difficulty I have with the parts of my body that no longer work, or get out of bed and be thankful for the ones that do. Each day is a gift, and as long as my eyes open, I'll focus on the new day and all the happy memories I have stored away just for this time in my life. Old age is like a bank account. You withdraw from what you've put in. So, my advice to you would be to deposit a lot of happiness in the bank account of memories. And thank you for your part in filling my memory bank. I am still depositing."
Remember the five simple rules to be happy:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
I've learned
I've learned,
That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
I've learned,
That when you're in love, it shows.
I've learned,
That just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.
I've learned,
That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
I've learned,
That being kind is more important than being right.
I've learned,
That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.
I've learned,
That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
I've learned,
That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
I've learned,
That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
I've learned,
That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
I've learned,
That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.
I've learned,
That money doesn't buy class.
I've learned,
That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
I've learned,
That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
I've learned,
That the Lord didn't do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?
I've learned,
That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.
I've learned,
That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
I've learned,
That love, not time, heals all wounds.
I've learned,
That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
I've learned,
That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
I've learned,
That there's nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.
I've learned,
That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
I've learned,
That life is tough, but I'm tougher.
I've learned,
That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
I've learned,
That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
I've learned,
That I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he passed away.
I've learned,
That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
I've learned,
That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
I've learned,
That I can't choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.
I've learned,
That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.
I've learned,
That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.
I've learned
That it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation.
I've learned,
That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.
I've learned,
To let go of you when it doesn't has to be that way.
I've learned,
To Let God leads my way in whatever i may not know..
That the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
I've learned,
That when you're in love, it shows.
I've learned,
That just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.
I've learned,
That having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
I've learned,
That being kind is more important than being right.
I've learned,
That I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.
I've learned,
That no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
I've learned,
That sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
I've learned,
That simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
I've learned,
That life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
I've learned,
That we should be glad God doesn't give us everything we ask for.
I've learned,
That money doesn't buy class.
I've learned,
That it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
I've learned,
That under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
I've learned,
That the Lord didn't do it all in one day. What makes me think I can?
I've learned,
That to ignore the facts does not change the facts.
I've learned,
That when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
I've learned,
That love, not time, heals all wounds.
I've learned,
That the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
I've learned,
That everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
I've learned,
That there's nothing sweeter than sleeping with your babies and feeling their breath on your cheeks.
I've learned,
That no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
I've learned,
That life is tough, but I'm tougher.
I've learned,
That opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
I've learned,
That when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
I've learned,
That I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he passed away.
I've learned,
That one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
I've learned,
That a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
I've learned,
That I can't choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.
I've learned,
That when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you're hooked for life.
I've learned,
That everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.
I've learned
That it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation.
I've learned,
That the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.
I've learned,
To let go of you when it doesn't has to be that way.
I've learned,
To Let God leads my way in whatever i may not know..
LET GO, LET GOD
I release and allow God's magnificence to flow through me.
This little phrase is a powerful statement of Truth: Let go, let God. I know that when I cling to what I perceive as a problem, my mind races to try to fix it. In this mode, I am working the problem instead of allowing the solution. By releasing my grip, I allow divine wisdom to flow freely within me.
Let go, let God, isn't about giving up; it is about going to the Source. Rather than casting my hands up in despair, I open my heart and mind and go within in prayer. In the silence, the answers I have been chasing rise to the surface easily. Miracles occur.
When I step out of the way and allow divine guidance to flow, I unleash the wisdom of God within me.
I can do nothing on my own. As I hear, I judge; and my judgment is just, because I seek to do not my own will but the will of him who sent me.--John 5:30
Let us I release and allow God's magnificence to flow through us.Amen.
By the name of Jesus Christ, i post.
This little phrase is a powerful statement of Truth: Let go, let God. I know that when I cling to what I perceive as a problem, my mind races to try to fix it. In this mode, I am working the problem instead of allowing the solution. By releasing my grip, I allow divine wisdom to flow freely within me.
Let go, let God, isn't about giving up; it is about going to the Source. Rather than casting my hands up in despair, I open my heart and mind and go within in prayer. In the silence, the answers I have been chasing rise to the surface easily. Miracles occur.
When I step out of the way and allow divine guidance to flow, I unleash the wisdom of God within me.
I can do nothing on my own. As I hear, I judge; and my judgment is just, because I seek to do not my own will but the will of him who sent me.--John 5:30
Let us I release and allow God's magnificence to flow through us.Amen.
By the name of Jesus Christ, i post.
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
God's Grace
I did not know His love before
The way I know it now
I could not see my need for Him
My pride would not allow.
I had it all, without a care
The “self-sufficient” lie
My path was smooth, my sea was still
Not a cloud was in my sky.
I thought I knew His love for me
I thought I’d seen His grace
I thought I did not need to grow
I thought I’d found my place.
But then the way grew rough and dark
The storm clouds quickly rolled
The waves began to rock my ship
I found I had no hold.
The ship that I had built myself
Was made of foolish pride
It fell apart and left me bare
With nowhere else to hide.
I had no strength or faith to face
The trials that lay ahead
And so I simply spoke His name
And bowed my weary head.
His loving arms enveloped me
And then He helped me stand
He said, “You still must face this storm
But I will hold your hand.”
So through the dark and lonely night
He guided me through pain
I could not see the light of day
Or when I’d smile again.
Yet through the pain and endless tears
My faith began to grow
I could not see it at the time
But my light began to glow.
I saw God’s love in a brand new light
His grace and mercy, too.
For only when all self was gone
Could Jesus’ love shine through.
Haleluyah, God is the best...
By the name of Jesus Christ,i post.
The way I know it now
I could not see my need for Him
My pride would not allow.
I had it all, without a care
The “self-sufficient” lie
My path was smooth, my sea was still
Not a cloud was in my sky.
I thought I knew His love for me
I thought I’d seen His grace
I thought I did not need to grow
I thought I’d found my place.
But then the way grew rough and dark
The storm clouds quickly rolled
The waves began to rock my ship
I found I had no hold.
The ship that I had built myself
Was made of foolish pride
It fell apart and left me bare
With nowhere else to hide.
I had no strength or faith to face
The trials that lay ahead
And so I simply spoke His name
And bowed my weary head.
His loving arms enveloped me
And then He helped me stand
He said, “You still must face this storm
But I will hold your hand.”
So through the dark and lonely night
He guided me through pain
I could not see the light of day
Or when I’d smile again.
Yet through the pain and endless tears
My faith began to grow
I could not see it at the time
But my light began to glow.
I saw God’s love in a brand new light
His grace and mercy, too.
For only when all self was gone
Could Jesus’ love shine through.
Haleluyah, God is the best...
By the name of Jesus Christ,i post.
God Said
I asked God to take away my pain.
God said, No.
It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.
I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said, No.
Her spirit was whole, her body was only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience.
God said, No.
Patience is a by-product of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is learned.
I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No.
I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, No.
You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No.
I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, No.
Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.
I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, No.
I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things.
I asked God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me.
God said . . .
Yes, finally you have the idea.
By The name of Jesus Christ,I post.
God said, No.
It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.
I asked God to make my handicapped child whole.
God said, No.
Her spirit was whole, her body was only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience.
God said, No.
Patience is a by-product of tribulations; it isn't granted, it is learned.
I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No.
I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, No.
You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No.
I give you blessings. Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, No.
Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.
I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, No.
I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things.
I asked God to help me LOVE others, as much as He loves me.
God said . . .
Yes, finally you have the idea.
By The name of Jesus Christ,I post.
Monday, January 18, 2010
Pray No Matter What
Psalm 42:11 and 43:5
"Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise Him, my Savior and my God."
Many people woke up this morning wondering if they will ever be able to praise God. Some are facing earthquakes and death, but many others are facing the separation and pain which keeps them from God. and the saddest thing was regarding the words " Allah" that causes many churches were disturbed.And yet, we have so many reasons to praise, so many reasons to declare His goodness and grace. Jesus told us we would have troubles in this world but then said, "But take heart! I have overcome the world" (John 16:33). Through all the confusion, anger and doubt, He is still our "refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble" (Psalm 46:1).
Let us pray that God will use these words to minister in a mighty way today. Pray they will find their way to those who are in great need. We all have reason for hope. He will never leave us, will never stop calling our name. Let's resolve to face our trials, no matter how great, and confidently proclaim "I will yet praise!" Amen.
By the name of The Lord,i post.
"Why are you downcast, O my soul? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise Him, my Savior and my God."
Many people woke up this morning wondering if they will ever be able to praise God. Some are facing earthquakes and death, but many others are facing the separation and pain which keeps them from God. and the saddest thing was regarding the words " Allah" that causes many churches were disturbed.And yet, we have so many reasons to praise, so many reasons to declare His goodness and grace. Jesus told us we would have troubles in this world but then said, "But take heart! I have overcome the world" (John 16:33). Through all the confusion, anger and doubt, He is still our "refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble" (Psalm 46:1).
Let us pray that God will use these words to minister in a mighty way today. Pray they will find their way to those who are in great need. We all have reason for hope. He will never leave us, will never stop calling our name. Let's resolve to face our trials, no matter how great, and confidently proclaim "I will yet praise!" Amen.
By the name of The Lord,i post.
Seed and Soil
Seed and Soil
Read Matthew 13:18–23
A person does not have to know much about gardening to realize the importance of preparing the soil. It is hard work to loosen the ground, break up the clods, add peat moss, and work it in. Finally, with the soil loose, moist and rich, the seeds can be planted with an expectation of a colorful harvest. It would be easier to simply throw the seed onto the hard weedy ground but the outcome would likely be quite different. The difference is not it the seed; it is in the soil.
But the one who received the seed that fell on good soil is the man who hears the word and understands it. He produces a crop yielding a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown (Matthew 13:23).
Just like in gardening, our hearts can be rich and moist or hard and dry. The quality of our hearts will make a difference in the impact the Word has in our lives. The Word is powerful but our hearts must be prepared to receive. What are you doing to prepare your heart to hear God’s Word?
Prayer Suggestion: Father, I want my heart to be like the good soil. Please help me to keep my heart open to You.
By the name of Jesus Christ, i post.
Read Matthew 13:18–23
A person does not have to know much about gardening to realize the importance of preparing the soil. It is hard work to loosen the ground, break up the clods, add peat moss, and work it in. Finally, with the soil loose, moist and rich, the seeds can be planted with an expectation of a colorful harvest. It would be easier to simply throw the seed onto the hard weedy ground but the outcome would likely be quite different. The difference is not it the seed; it is in the soil.
But the one who received the seed that fell on good soil is the man who hears the word and understands it. He produces a crop yielding a hundred, sixty or thirty times what was sown (Matthew 13:23).
Just like in gardening, our hearts can be rich and moist or hard and dry. The quality of our hearts will make a difference in the impact the Word has in our lives. The Word is powerful but our hearts must be prepared to receive. What are you doing to prepare your heart to hear God’s Word?
Prayer Suggestion: Father, I want my heart to be like the good soil. Please help me to keep my heart open to You.
By the name of Jesus Christ, i post.
Love as a New Way of Life 1
38For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons,[a] neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, 39neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord ( Romans 8:38-39 )
Guys, talking about love, i'd never said " I Love You " to my both of my parents... Whenever their birthday is just around the corner, all i can do is buy a cake for them and promise myself that i won't let them down... Have you ever try to say those three words to your parents? hee, i bet most of us haven't say" i love you" to our parents. how pathetic... But, i din't get to hear " i love you " from my both parents either but i knew they love me so much ... So much until no words can't describe the love they showed... But today, from this little book , titled " The Love As A Way of Life " by Gary Chapman, Gary has reminded me that God loves us no matter how we look , poor or rich, ugly or pretty, He loves us.God loves us without restraint or condition.So,whenever you fell that you're alone, you feel that no one loves you , no one cares about you... Turns to God and remember you are loved. No matter what. God loves you more than any friend can offer, any lover can offer and any best thing you had in your life.
Let us pray and thank to God for His gracious love through all. Amen.
By the name of Jesus Christ, I post.
Guys, talking about love, i'd never said " I Love You " to my both of my parents... Whenever their birthday is just around the corner, all i can do is buy a cake for them and promise myself that i won't let them down... Have you ever try to say those three words to your parents? hee, i bet most of us haven't say" i love you" to our parents. how pathetic... But, i din't get to hear " i love you " from my both parents either but i knew they love me so much ... So much until no words can't describe the love they showed... But today, from this little book , titled " The Love As A Way of Life " by Gary Chapman, Gary has reminded me that God loves us no matter how we look , poor or rich, ugly or pretty, He loves us.God loves us without restraint or condition.So,whenever you fell that you're alone, you feel that no one loves you , no one cares about you... Turns to God and remember you are loved. No matter what. God loves you more than any friend can offer, any lover can offer and any best thing you had in your life.
Let us pray and thank to God for His gracious love through all. Amen.
By the name of Jesus Christ, I post.
Sunday, January 17, 2010
Time for Miracles
It's late at night and I can't sleep
Missing you just runs too deep
Oh I can't breathe thinking of your smile
Every kiss I can't forget
This aching heart ain't broken yet
Oh God I wish I could make you see
Cuz I know this flame isn't dying
So nothing can stop me from trying
Baby you know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
You know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
No I ain't giving up on us
I just wanna be with you
Cuz living is so hard to do
When all I know is trapped inside your eyes
The future I cannot forget
This aching heart ain't broken yet
Oh God I wish I could make you see
Cuz I know this flame isn't dying
So nothing can stop me from trying
Baby you know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
You know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
No I ain't giving up on us
Baby can you feel it (feel it)
http://www.elyricsworld.com/time_for_miracles_lyrics_adam_lambert.html
You know I can hear it (hear it)
So can you feel me feel you....
You know it's time....
Baby you know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
You know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
You know I ain't giving up on us
You know I ain't giving up on
Oh I ain't giving up on us
thanks Gary,for this song...
Missing you just runs too deep
Oh I can't breathe thinking of your smile
Every kiss I can't forget
This aching heart ain't broken yet
Oh God I wish I could make you see
Cuz I know this flame isn't dying
So nothing can stop me from trying
Baby you know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
You know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
No I ain't giving up on us
I just wanna be with you
Cuz living is so hard to do
When all I know is trapped inside your eyes
The future I cannot forget
This aching heart ain't broken yet
Oh God I wish I could make you see
Cuz I know this flame isn't dying
So nothing can stop me from trying
Baby you know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
You know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
No I ain't giving up on us
Baby can you feel it (feel it)
http://www.elyricsworld.com/time_for_miracles_lyrics_adam_lambert.html
You know I can hear it (hear it)
So can you feel me feel you....
You know it's time....
Baby you know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
You know that
Maybe it's time for miracles
Cuz I ain't giving up on love
You know I ain't giving up on us
You know I ain't giving up on
Oh I ain't giving up on us
thanks Gary,for this song...
Saturday, January 16, 2010
At the Cross
Alas! and did my Savior bleed
And did my Sovereign die?
Would He devote that sacred head
For sinners such as I?
Refrain
At the cross, at the cross where I first saw the light,
And the burden of my heart rolled away,
It was there by faith I received my sight,
And now I am happy all the day!
Thy body slain, sweet Jesus, Thine—
And bathed in its own blood—
While the firm mark of wrath divine,
His Soul in anguish stood.
Was it for crimes that I had done
He groaned upon the tree?
Amazing pity! grace unknown!
And love beyond degree!
Well might the sun in darkness hide
And shut his glories in,
When Christ, the mighty Maker died,
For man the creature’s sin.
Thus might I hide my blushing face
While His dear cross appears,
Dissolve my heart in thankfulness,
And melt my eyes to tears.
But drops of grief can ne’er repay
The debt of love I owe:
Here, Lord, I give my self away
’Tis all that I can do.
And did my Sovereign die?
Would He devote that sacred head
For sinners such as I?
Refrain
At the cross, at the cross where I first saw the light,
And the burden of my heart rolled away,
It was there by faith I received my sight,
And now I am happy all the day!
Thy body slain, sweet Jesus, Thine—
And bathed in its own blood—
While the firm mark of wrath divine,
His Soul in anguish stood.
Was it for crimes that I had done
He groaned upon the tree?
Amazing pity! grace unknown!
And love beyond degree!
Well might the sun in darkness hide
And shut his glories in,
When Christ, the mighty Maker died,
For man the creature’s sin.
Thus might I hide my blushing face
While His dear cross appears,
Dissolve my heart in thankfulness,
And melt my eyes to tears.
But drops of grief can ne’er repay
The debt of love I owe:
Here, Lord, I give my self away
’Tis all that I can do.
Work For It
Tell me what you can do
If i'm alone
Would you stay by my side
And tell me "dear,you're not alone. I'm here"
Would you stay here
Watch movie with pairs
Laugh by both
Pamper me...
Would you do it for me?
We may seperated by miles and miles away
We may stucked by hundreds and hundreds of confusion
But our hearts join us on every junction of misunderstanding
At every corner of dangerous
In every lackness of faith...
Would you stand by me?
Would you show me that you're mine?
Cause all i see was your madness to conquer each
If i'm yours,show me
If you love me,do as you love me
If you miss me,do as you miss me
There's a show we wish to watch on Wednesday,
Would you watch with me?
If you really need me
Would you do whatever you can
To ensure i'm caught in the middle of your love?
Would your risk whatever it might takes
To get me back?
Would you pay whatever it cost
To prove i'm really valuable to you?
Cause i don't see any of this
When we was one...
If i'm alone
Would you stay by my side
And tell me "dear,you're not alone. I'm here"
Would you stay here
Watch movie with pairs
Laugh by both
Pamper me...
Would you do it for me?
We may seperated by miles and miles away
We may stucked by hundreds and hundreds of confusion
But our hearts join us on every junction of misunderstanding
At every corner of dangerous
In every lackness of faith...
Would you stand by me?
Would you show me that you're mine?
Cause all i see was your madness to conquer each
If i'm yours,show me
If you love me,do as you love me
If you miss me,do as you miss me
There's a show we wish to watch on Wednesday,
Would you watch with me?
If you really need me
Would you do whatever you can
To ensure i'm caught in the middle of your love?
Would your risk whatever it might takes
To get me back?
Would you pay whatever it cost
To prove i'm really valuable to you?
Cause i don't see any of this
When we was one...
I Rather to be like this
Our love was so precious
But when it had to be so priceless although it is too valuable
I rather hurt myself to let you go...
If you loved me
Then why you acted like some kind of a creature...
If it had to be that way
I rather be your victim
Listen to me, I hate you but i love you ...
But if the three words was the only words you want to hear
I rather remain silent cause sometimes remain silent is the best answer.
Tell me what you want
Tell me what you need
Tell me what you want me to be
Tell me what you want me to say
Tell me what do i meant to you
Cause no matter what you wish...
I rather stay...
But when it had to be so priceless although it is too valuable
I rather hurt myself to let you go...
If you loved me
Then why you acted like some kind of a creature...
If it had to be that way
I rather be your victim
Listen to me, I hate you but i love you ...
But if the three words was the only words you want to hear
I rather remain silent cause sometimes remain silent is the best answer.
Tell me what you want
Tell me what you need
Tell me what you want me to be
Tell me what you want me to say
Tell me what do i meant to you
Cause no matter what you wish...
I rather stay...
Thursday, January 14, 2010
Hopeless
Raining Heavily,
And I...Speechless
Just and Fair...
No stupid love song can describe how I feel,
Sometimes the words other people say,
actions other people show
Are never good enough or real
No one will ever know how I'm feeling today
And I don't wish this to be like this in the future...
Sometimes,
I put my hopes up way too high
I thought you'd feel the same way
But Hopeless...
Now all I need to not do is cry
Because tears won't take the pain away worse.
and crying make thing
For a moment I thought you knew
For a moment I thought you cared
For a moment I thought you meant "I love you"
For a moment I thought you appreciated the love we shared
That moment conclude hopeless in the end...
What do you know anyway?
You're just a guy
Have your fun today
And tomorrow make me cry
I'll fake my smile
I'll say I'm okay
I'll be happy for a while
And be dead inside
I'll be strong
I'll be tough
I kept on calling you sweet
Little did I know
Your love is the one thing I can't beat
I just can't seem to let you go!
What a stupid lyrics...
And again...
You make me feel like such a fool
I don’t want to love you
Why did love have to be so cruel?
Why is there nothing that I can do?
Love can sometimes be great
That's something I cannot deny
But when it turns into hate
He won't be just "another guy"
He'll be the guy that broke you into pieces
He'll be the guy that made you a mess
He'll be the love that slowly ceases
After you finally confess
Listening to that song
Makes me feel like the stupidest girl alive
It made me realize that what I felt was wrong
Because I won't get you no matter how much I strive.
Because sorry just not the way it used to be.
And I...Speechless
Just and Fair...
No stupid love song can describe how I feel,
Sometimes the words other people say,
actions other people show
Are never good enough or real
No one will ever know how I'm feeling today
And I don't wish this to be like this in the future...
Sometimes,
I put my hopes up way too high
I thought you'd feel the same way
But Hopeless...
Now all I need to not do is cry
Because tears won't take the pain away worse.
and crying make thing
For a moment I thought you knew
For a moment I thought you cared
For a moment I thought you meant "I love you"
For a moment I thought you appreciated the love we shared
That moment conclude hopeless in the end...
What do you know anyway?
You're just a guy
Have your fun today
And tomorrow make me cry
I'll fake my smile
I'll say I'm okay
I'll be happy for a while
And be dead inside
I'll be strong
I'll be tough
I kept on calling you sweet
Little did I know
Your love is the one thing I can't beat
I just can't seem to let you go!
What a stupid lyrics...
And again...
You make me feel like such a fool
I don’t want to love you
Why did love have to be so cruel?
Why is there nothing that I can do?
Love can sometimes be great
That's something I cannot deny
But when it turns into hate
He won't be just "another guy"
He'll be the guy that broke you into pieces
He'll be the guy that made you a mess
He'll be the love that slowly ceases
After you finally confess
Listening to that song
Makes me feel like the stupidest girl alive
It made me realize that what I felt was wrong
Because I won't get you no matter how much I strive.
Because sorry just not the way it used to be.
GOD'S GLORY AND GOD'S LOVE
Many people have a hard time understanding how God's passion for His glory and God's love for us are in unity. For example, if I went around trying to show everyone how glorious and amazing I am, nobody would call that "love." This article demonstrates how God is the only one who can behave like this, and it would be the very definition of "love."
Question: What is the most loving thing that God can do for us?
Answer: The most loving thing God can do for us is to allow us to see His glory and enjoy Him forever.
Explanation: God is the ultimate satisfier of souls. Nothing that He gives you (e.g. money, fame, high self-esteem) can truly satisfy your soul, except God Himself. Because soul satisfaction is the ultimate pleasure, this is the most loving thing God can do for us.
Question: How does God satisfy our souls?
Answer: God satisfies our souls by allowing us to see His glory and be completely blown away by Him, producing extreme love for Him in us, as well as extreme happiness.
Explanation: It is more satisfying to be enthralled by someone infinitely greater than yourself than to feel really good about yourself. For example, let's say you go bowling and you bowl your highest game ever (120 pins). It might feel really good to accomplish this, but compare this to everyone at the bowling alley watching in amazement as a man bowls his first 300 game ever. Suddenly, you forget about your modest achievement because everyone at the bowling alley has just experienced something far greater and more enjoyable. Seeing this amazing accomplishment causes you to forget about yourself and to stand in awe of something truly amazing. So it is with God's glory. We will feel less happy and satisfied if God makes much of us and leads us to focus on ourselves, and we will feel far more happy and satisfied if God points us to Himself and allows us to see how infinitely glorious and amazing He is!
Question: Why do people like celebrities, professional athletes, and superheroes?
Answer: They like them because they are in awe of their beauty, talents, or super powers.
Explanation: People are not infatuated with celebrities, athletes, and superheroes because they are liked by them; they are infatuated because they are in awe of their abilities and/or characteristics. This does not mean that people will be jealous of their abilities or that they will feel bad because they lack these abilities. Most people know that they can never be half as good at basketball as Michael Jordan, so they are perfectly fine with their own level of basketball skill, and they are simply in awe of someone far greater than themselves.
Question: Why is God the ultimate superhero?
Answer: God is the ultimate superhero because He is the sum total of all admirable, glorious, and praiseworthy abilities and characteristics.
Explanation: Superman is a meager reflection of the glory of God. We cannot even begin to comprehend how powerful and glorious God is! This is why the Bible says that anyone who sees God's face will die (Exodus 33:20), because He is infinitely glorious!
Question: How does God's loving character fit in with His glory?
Answer: God's amazing love is part of what makes Him so glorious!
Explanation: The largest and most powerful display of God's glory known to man was Christ's extraordinary act of love and self-sacrifice displayed in willfully dying on the cross for our sins. Equal in glory to this was how the Father poured out His wrath, equal to countless eternal hells, on His own infinitely glorious and undeserving Son for people who have hated and rejected Him.
Question: Why do we like the fact that God loves us?
Answer #1: We don't have to feel guilty for the things we do.
Explanation: Many people like God's love because it helps them not feel guilty for doing bad things. These people often emphasize God's "unconditional love and acceptance."
Answer #2: We can go to a fictional heaven where we get every non-God thing that we've ever dreamed of, including an "unconditionally accepting" god who gives us all of the glory that is really due to him, and we can escape Hell in the process.
Explanation: This is the standard American reason for liking God.
Answer #3: We like the fact that there is a powerful being to do our bidding.
Explanation: Many people view God's purpose as being our servant. For example, God exists to help us when we need it and fix things that get messed up, and as long as we express our appreciation to Him on occasion, He is happy with us.
Answer #4: God's love for us makes us feel really special and important to Him.
Explanation: Although we are important to God (He died for us!), this should not be the focus of why we want God to love us, because it places the focus on our value and worth rather than on God's value to us.
Answer #5: We like the fact that God loves us because this allows us to have sweet fellowship with the most amazing Person in the universe, for whom we were created to eternally love and enjoy!
Explanation: This is the reason for liking God that brings Him the most glory and makes us the most satisfied!
Question: What is the most loving thing that God can do for us?
Answer: The most loving thing God can do for us is to allow us to see His glory and enjoy Him forever.
Explanation: God is the ultimate satisfier of souls. Nothing that He gives you (e.g. money, fame, high self-esteem) can truly satisfy your soul, except God Himself. Because soul satisfaction is the ultimate pleasure, this is the most loving thing God can do for us.
Question: How does God satisfy our souls?
Answer: God satisfies our souls by allowing us to see His glory and be completely blown away by Him, producing extreme love for Him in us, as well as extreme happiness.
Explanation: It is more satisfying to be enthralled by someone infinitely greater than yourself than to feel really good about yourself. For example, let's say you go bowling and you bowl your highest game ever (120 pins). It might feel really good to accomplish this, but compare this to everyone at the bowling alley watching in amazement as a man bowls his first 300 game ever. Suddenly, you forget about your modest achievement because everyone at the bowling alley has just experienced something far greater and more enjoyable. Seeing this amazing accomplishment causes you to forget about yourself and to stand in awe of something truly amazing. So it is with God's glory. We will feel less happy and satisfied if God makes much of us and leads us to focus on ourselves, and we will feel far more happy and satisfied if God points us to Himself and allows us to see how infinitely glorious and amazing He is!
Question: Why do people like celebrities, professional athletes, and superheroes?
Answer: They like them because they are in awe of their beauty, talents, or super powers.
Explanation: People are not infatuated with celebrities, athletes, and superheroes because they are liked by them; they are infatuated because they are in awe of their abilities and/or characteristics. This does not mean that people will be jealous of their abilities or that they will feel bad because they lack these abilities. Most people know that they can never be half as good at basketball as Michael Jordan, so they are perfectly fine with their own level of basketball skill, and they are simply in awe of someone far greater than themselves.
Question: Why is God the ultimate superhero?
Answer: God is the ultimate superhero because He is the sum total of all admirable, glorious, and praiseworthy abilities and characteristics.
Explanation: Superman is a meager reflection of the glory of God. We cannot even begin to comprehend how powerful and glorious God is! This is why the Bible says that anyone who sees God's face will die (Exodus 33:20), because He is infinitely glorious!
Question: How does God's loving character fit in with His glory?
Answer: God's amazing love is part of what makes Him so glorious!
Explanation: The largest and most powerful display of God's glory known to man was Christ's extraordinary act of love and self-sacrifice displayed in willfully dying on the cross for our sins. Equal in glory to this was how the Father poured out His wrath, equal to countless eternal hells, on His own infinitely glorious and undeserving Son for people who have hated and rejected Him.
Question: Why do we like the fact that God loves us?
Answer #1: We don't have to feel guilty for the things we do.
Explanation: Many people like God's love because it helps them not feel guilty for doing bad things. These people often emphasize God's "unconditional love and acceptance."
Answer #2: We can go to a fictional heaven where we get every non-God thing that we've ever dreamed of, including an "unconditionally accepting" god who gives us all of the glory that is really due to him, and we can escape Hell in the process.
Explanation: This is the standard American reason for liking God.
Answer #3: We like the fact that there is a powerful being to do our bidding.
Explanation: Many people view God's purpose as being our servant. For example, God exists to help us when we need it and fix things that get messed up, and as long as we express our appreciation to Him on occasion, He is happy with us.
Answer #4: God's love for us makes us feel really special and important to Him.
Explanation: Although we are important to God (He died for us!), this should not be the focus of why we want God to love us, because it places the focus on our value and worth rather than on God's value to us.
Answer #5: We like the fact that God loves us because this allows us to have sweet fellowship with the most amazing Person in the universe, for whom we were created to eternally love and enjoy!
Explanation: This is the reason for liking God that brings Him the most glory and makes us the most satisfied!
Can We Change This World?
Its a rainy day today....
Hmm... wearing my pink jacket and i went to my mom restaurant...You know guys, i have a lot of things to share, because i think too much and i admit that i get inspiration, lesson and experiences from what i saw, i heard, i touched and i felt much more easier when it is raining... I don't believe anything such horoscope's guide and anything but i'll read them when i found it out in magazine and such... but one thing i really admit and confess is that my horoscope's element - water.... I'm pisces and yes i do like water and bath. talking about bath, hey i met Mr Spider just now, and he was like... Murmuring at me and said :" Hi, Sharon ". We meet again "... and the nerve impulse which was send to the brain making response and make me think : " Oh no, its rainy, i dont want to go bath and scared by Mr spider." And then dad came downstairs.... i was screaming for help : " Dad, please help me get rid of that " Mr "(with my fingers pointing at the spider which was huge as my palm size, imagine it ), can you? And dad was like : " Yes, I can (hearing the word " CAN " makes me happy but then..) , but i may not ( adrenaline rush, and i'm involuntarily steps out from the bathroom) ." I forced myself to enter the bathroom and said " don't scare, its just a spider"...but at the back of my mind said "just a spider? hehehe, yeah, just a spider ".... I don't enjoy my bubble time and i wished to take my bath later but in with my wet clothes and hair caused by the rain, i have to take a bath now, or else, i'll need Dr Cool Fever... hmm.... so, here it goes, i'm out of the dangerous area and wuh...... Its good to be safe again.
Now, back to my personal reflection of the day. Just like i said, its a rainy day today, and a whole day, the city is watered by a water that falls from the clouds in small drops- rain... hehehe. And yet, i saw some people asking for alcohols on the middle of a morning? and the worst part was, it was the aunt, the same person i saw last 2 days at mom's restaurant with her gangs... i have to say the saddest part helping mom at shop is to offer someone a cup of beer , holding cigar's box and give it to the people....its like killing someone...hey,alcohol is one of the most well established causes of cancer. It increases the risk of liver cancer, it increases the risk of breast cancer,it increases the risk of mouth and oesophageal (foodpipe) cancers and smoking and drinking together increases risk even more...Share something that i learned at school to you guys...
In our body, alcohol is converted into a toxic chemical called acetaldehyde. This is one the main reasons why we get hangovers.But acetaldehyde does more than give you a headache in the morning. It can cause cancer by damaging DNA and stopping our cells from repairing this damage.Acetaldehyde also causes liver cells to grow faster than normal which mean the mitosis process becomes abnormal and this causes tumor in early stage ans cancerous cell at critical stage and these regenerating cells are more likely to pick up changes in their genes that could lead to cancer.Alcohol can also increase the levels of some hormones, such as oestrogen, testosterone and insulin. which increase the risk of breast cancer.
And smoking is very famous with lung cancer. Smoking harms nearly every organ of the body and diminishes a person’s overall health. Smoking is a leading cause of cancer and of death from cancer. It causes cancers of the lung, esophagus, larynx (voice box), mouth, throat, kidney, bladder, pancreas, stomach, and cervix... I believe teacher told us a lot in this. Blacken lungs and, watery and so on... The carbon monoxide reacts with oxygen much more faster than haemoglobin, and cause us fail to produce oxyhaemoglobin instead we producing more and more carboxyhemoglobin. and this lead to insufficient oxygen to red blood cell and finally asthma come to say " Hi "...
Guys, please pray for me and my parents so that they quit from selling those stuff.It promises great profit but killing people condemn profit with what family's lost.... I shares my opinion with my best friend about this. She said : " Its not your fault, they choose to be like that." And i think : " What she said is true but where are these people wisdom ? they know how to differentiat the good and the bad but then? my friend got a phoenix tattoo for herself. Feel happy for her happiness that came from that tattoo but fell sorry for her body .
Guys, if you'e sharing the same thought with me. Imagine my shop... there are at least 4 until 8 persons will come and buy cigar or drinks alcohols. Imagine the whole city and plus the whole world. Huge success begins with a tiny efforts and lots a lots of failure and time... We can change this thing by ensure you and my generation chose to pick the good in the options... that is NO ALCOHOLS AND NO SMOKING...
Hmm... wearing my pink jacket and i went to my mom restaurant...You know guys, i have a lot of things to share, because i think too much and i admit that i get inspiration, lesson and experiences from what i saw, i heard, i touched and i felt much more easier when it is raining... I don't believe anything such horoscope's guide and anything but i'll read them when i found it out in magazine and such... but one thing i really admit and confess is that my horoscope's element - water.... I'm pisces and yes i do like water and bath. talking about bath, hey i met Mr Spider just now, and he was like... Murmuring at me and said :" Hi, Sharon ". We meet again "... and the nerve impulse which was send to the brain making response and make me think : " Oh no, its rainy, i dont want to go bath and scared by Mr spider." And then dad came downstairs.... i was screaming for help : " Dad, please help me get rid of that " Mr "(with my fingers pointing at the spider which was huge as my palm size, imagine it ), can you? And dad was like : " Yes, I can (hearing the word " CAN " makes me happy but then..) , but i may not ( adrenaline rush, and i'm involuntarily steps out from the bathroom) ." I forced myself to enter the bathroom and said " don't scare, its just a spider"...but at the back of my mind said "just a spider? hehehe, yeah, just a spider ".... I don't enjoy my bubble time and i wished to take my bath later but in with my wet clothes and hair caused by the rain, i have to take a bath now, or else, i'll need Dr Cool Fever... hmm.... so, here it goes, i'm out of the dangerous area and wuh...... Its good to be safe again.
Now, back to my personal reflection of the day. Just like i said, its a rainy day today, and a whole day, the city is watered by a water that falls from the clouds in small drops- rain... hehehe. And yet, i saw some people asking for alcohols on the middle of a morning? and the worst part was, it was the aunt, the same person i saw last 2 days at mom's restaurant with her gangs... i have to say the saddest part helping mom at shop is to offer someone a cup of beer , holding cigar's box and give it to the people....its like killing someone...hey,alcohol is one of the most well established causes of cancer. It increases the risk of liver cancer, it increases the risk of breast cancer,it increases the risk of mouth and oesophageal (foodpipe) cancers and smoking and drinking together increases risk even more...Share something that i learned at school to you guys...
In our body, alcohol is converted into a toxic chemical called acetaldehyde. This is one the main reasons why we get hangovers.But acetaldehyde does more than give you a headache in the morning. It can cause cancer by damaging DNA and stopping our cells from repairing this damage.Acetaldehyde also causes liver cells to grow faster than normal which mean the mitosis process becomes abnormal and this causes tumor in early stage ans cancerous cell at critical stage and these regenerating cells are more likely to pick up changes in their genes that could lead to cancer.Alcohol can also increase the levels of some hormones, such as oestrogen, testosterone and insulin. which increase the risk of breast cancer.
And smoking is very famous with lung cancer. Smoking harms nearly every organ of the body and diminishes a person’s overall health. Smoking is a leading cause of cancer and of death from cancer. It causes cancers of the lung, esophagus, larynx (voice box), mouth, throat, kidney, bladder, pancreas, stomach, and cervix... I believe teacher told us a lot in this. Blacken lungs and, watery and so on... The carbon monoxide reacts with oxygen much more faster than haemoglobin, and cause us fail to produce oxyhaemoglobin instead we producing more and more carboxyhemoglobin. and this lead to insufficient oxygen to red blood cell and finally asthma come to say " Hi "...
Guys, please pray for me and my parents so that they quit from selling those stuff.It promises great profit but killing people condemn profit with what family's lost.... I shares my opinion with my best friend about this. She said : " Its not your fault, they choose to be like that." And i think : " What she said is true but where are these people wisdom ? they know how to differentiat the good and the bad but then? my friend got a phoenix tattoo for herself. Feel happy for her happiness that came from that tattoo but fell sorry for her body .
Guys, if you'e sharing the same thought with me. Imagine my shop... there are at least 4 until 8 persons will come and buy cigar or drinks alcohols. Imagine the whole city and plus the whole world. Huge success begins with a tiny efforts and lots a lots of failure and time... We can change this thing by ensure you and my generation chose to pick the good in the options... that is NO ALCOHOLS AND NO SMOKING...
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
Disappointed
I realized something and it makes me disappointed.
Now, i know your love isn't strong as you said,
isn't great as you said,
isn't as the way you'd promise me.
I knew i shouldn't wait and hoping for something precious between us.
Thanks for showing all,
For every promise, there is price to pay,
but for every price you pat,
it seems to be a credit,
you owe me.
And yet, you haven't done it,
You tried to make new one but now i know it was nothing for you.
i should know when a man repeats a promise again and again, he means to fail you.
Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed,
to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.
In love, it is better to know and be disappointed,
than to not know and always wonder.
Thanks for not letting me waiting,
i know now i'm nothing ,
i know now i'm so fast to be replaced ,
i know now i'm so fast to be forgot,
i know now i'm meant to be forgot,
and thanks for showing that i was so special...
It is foolish to pretend that one is fully recovered from a disappointed passion. Such wounds always leave a scar.
Now, i know your love isn't strong as you said,
isn't great as you said,
isn't as the way you'd promise me.
I knew i shouldn't wait and hoping for something precious between us.
Thanks for showing all,
For every promise, there is price to pay,
but for every price you pat,
it seems to be a credit,
you owe me.
And yet, you haven't done it,
You tried to make new one but now i know it was nothing for you.
i should know when a man repeats a promise again and again, he means to fail you.
Love comes to those who still hope even though they've been disappointed, to those who still believe even though they've been betrayed,
to those who still love even though they've been hurt before.
In love, it is better to know and be disappointed,
than to not know and always wonder.
Thanks for not letting me waiting,
i know now i'm nothing ,
i know now i'm so fast to be replaced ,
i know now i'm so fast to be forgot,
i know now i'm meant to be forgot,
and thanks for showing that i was so special...
It is foolish to pretend that one is fully recovered from a disappointed passion. Such wounds always leave a scar.
Was Once Yours
If You Really Love Something
Set It Free.
If It Comes Back, It's Yours,
If Not, It Wasn't Meant To Be.
Its hard to pretend
you love someone
when you don't
but its harder to pretend
that you don't love someone
when you really do.
Love is never lost. If not reciprocated,
it will flow back and soften
and purify the heart.
Forget the times
he walked by,
Forget the times
he made you cry,
Forget the times
he spoke your name,
Remember now
your not the same.
Forget the times
he held your hand,
Forget the sweet things
if you can,
Forget the times
& Don't pretend,
Remember now
he's just your friend.
Sometimes it's hard
to love someone
because you're so
afraid of losing them
Never be sad for what is over,
just be glad that it was once yours.
Set It Free.
If It Comes Back, It's Yours,
If Not, It Wasn't Meant To Be.
Its hard to pretend
you love someone
when you don't
but its harder to pretend
that you don't love someone
when you really do.
Love is never lost. If not reciprocated,
it will flow back and soften
and purify the heart.
Forget the times
he walked by,
Forget the times
he made you cry,
Forget the times
he spoke your name,
Remember now
your not the same.
Forget the times
he held your hand,
Forget the sweet things
if you can,
Forget the times
& Don't pretend,
Remember now
he's just your friend.
Sometimes it's hard
to love someone
because you're so
afraid of losing them
Never be sad for what is over,
just be glad that it was once yours.
Tuesday, January 12, 2010
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Broke My Heart
If You Really
Love Something
Set It Free.
If It Comes Back, It's Yours,
If Not, It Wasn't Meant To Be.
I don't miss him,
I miss who
I thought he was.
You broke me,
you broke my heart,
you broke everything!
You turned my world upside down
and inside out,
BUT I know it was worth it,
for that one moment of love we had,
it's a shame it went bad.....
The hottest love
has the coldest end.
It takes a couple seconds
to say Hello,
but forever
to say Goodbye.
Some Day You'll Cry For Me Like
I Cried For You,
Some Day You'll Miss Me Like
I Missed You,
Some Day You'll Need Me Like
I Needed You,
Some Day You'll Love Me
But I Won't Love You.
I’m going to smile
and make you think I’m happy,
I’m going to laugh,
so you don’t see me cry,
I’m going to let you go in style,
and even if it kills me
- I’m going to smile.
The hardest part
of loving someone
is knowing when to let go,
and knowing when to say goodbye.
Love Something
Set It Free.
If It Comes Back, It's Yours,
If Not, It Wasn't Meant To Be.
I don't miss him,
I miss who
I thought he was.
You broke me,
you broke my heart,
you broke everything!
You turned my world upside down
and inside out,
BUT I know it was worth it,
for that one moment of love we had,
it's a shame it went bad.....
The hottest love
has the coldest end.
It takes a couple seconds
to say Hello,
but forever
to say Goodbye.
Some Day You'll Cry For Me Like
I Cried For You,
Some Day You'll Miss Me Like
I Missed You,
Some Day You'll Need Me Like
I Needed You,
Some Day You'll Love Me
But I Won't Love You.
I’m going to smile
and make you think I’m happy,
I’m going to laugh,
so you don’t see me cry,
I’m going to let you go in style,
and even if it kills me
- I’m going to smile.
The hardest part
of loving someone
is knowing when to let go,
and knowing when to say goodbye.
Another Day
As I opened up my eyes this morning the sun was in its rise again
The sky blazed with its lucid fires of blue as a tremendous mass of hilarity
And the quickening songs of the birds were as pure and true as the fresh air
While the tree’s danced everywhere in pure glory
It was a beauty glamorously revealed
A blessing meant to be; another day
And so my soul started to shine like the sky
It sang productively and delightfully as the birds
It was like the trees; dancing gloriously
It occupied my mere spirit with exhilaration
For I knew the Creator of that creation was granted; granted to us!
As everything everywhere was
It was a day; Another Day
That I knew was going to be magnificent and fruitful in every possible way
And so I heard myself, freely saying
“This is the day that the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad it is,
Thank you for blessing our eyes to see this beautiful day
For giving us the health and strength to get off our beds to walk and greet
this day. Thank you! Thank you Almighty Father, for all of your blessings.
Many praise and thanks be to You for everything, In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
The sky blazed with its lucid fires of blue as a tremendous mass of hilarity
And the quickening songs of the birds were as pure and true as the fresh air
While the tree’s danced everywhere in pure glory
It was a beauty glamorously revealed
A blessing meant to be; another day
And so my soul started to shine like the sky
It sang productively and delightfully as the birds
It was like the trees; dancing gloriously
It occupied my mere spirit with exhilaration
For I knew the Creator of that creation was granted; granted to us!
As everything everywhere was
It was a day; Another Day
That I knew was going to be magnificent and fruitful in every possible way
And so I heard myself, freely saying
“This is the day that the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad it is,
Thank you for blessing our eyes to see this beautiful day
For giving us the health and strength to get off our beds to walk and greet
this day. Thank you! Thank you Almighty Father, for all of your blessings.
Many praise and thanks be to You for everything, In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
What I Was
When I Look At You My Heart Skips A Beat
But Later That Beat Could Mean A Lifetime Of Tears
Wasted On Something I Knew I Can't control.
If You Love Me Like You Told Me
Please Be Careful With My Heart.
You Can Take It, Just Don't Break It and please don't hurt it
Or My World Would Fall Apart.
You learn to like someone
when you find out what makes them laugh,
but you can never truly love someone
until you find out what makes them cry.
The moment I looked in your eyes.
i know....
I fell in love.
Every time I look I fall in love again.
I've looked so many times,
and have gathered so much love.
I have so much to carry with me
I don't know what to do.
Even when I pour
my heart out to you,
I'm not sure it shows,
that I love you more
than you'll ever know.
But Later That Beat Could Mean A Lifetime Of Tears
Wasted On Something I Knew I Can't control.
If You Love Me Like You Told Me
Please Be Careful With My Heart.
You Can Take It, Just Don't Break It and please don't hurt it
Or My World Would Fall Apart.
You learn to like someone
when you find out what makes them laugh,
but you can never truly love someone
until you find out what makes them cry.
The moment I looked in your eyes.
i know....
I fell in love.
Every time I look I fall in love again.
I've looked so many times,
and have gathered so much love.
I have so much to carry with me
I don't know what to do.
Even when I pour
my heart out to you,
I'm not sure it shows,
that I love you more
than you'll ever know.
Monday, January 11, 2010
Hate is easy, Love takes Courage
If I never met you,
I wouldn't like you.
If I didn't like you
I wouldn't love you.
If I didn't love you
I wouldn't miss you,
but I did,
I do and I will.
I can live
without any friends,
any family and any money
but I can't live without you.
I'm sorry for crying over you,
because I said I wouldn't.
But I didn't promise you that,
because I knew it would be a promise
I would never be able to keep.
My Heart Was Taken By You,
Broken By You And Now
Is In Pieces Because Of You
It hurts to breathe
because every breath I take
proves I can't live without you.
Never Say
" I love you "
if you don't really care,
never talk about feeling
if they aren't really there.
Never hold my hand
if you're going to break my heart.
Never say you're to,
if you never plan to start.
Never look into my eyes
if all you do is lie.
Never say hello,
if you really mean goodbye.
If you really mean forever,
then say you will try.
Never say forever
' cause forever makes me cry.
As Part Of You Has Grown In Me,
Together Forever Shall We Be,
Never Apart Maybe In Distance
But Not In Heart.
The greatest pain that comes from love
is loving someone you can never have.
The stupidest mistake in life
is thinking the one who hurt you the most,
won't hurt you again.
Love is unconditional,
relationships are not.
For all sad words of tongue and pen,
the saddest are these,
It might have been.
To fall in love is awfully simple,
but to fall out of love is simply awful.
The worst feeling in the world
is giving all the love you have
and knowing it will never be returned.
There is one pain I often feel
which you will never know
because it is caused
by the absence of you.
I wouldn't like you.
If I didn't like you
I wouldn't love you.
If I didn't love you
I wouldn't miss you,
but I did,
I do and I will.
I can live
without any friends,
any family and any money
but I can't live without you.
I'm sorry for crying over you,
because I said I wouldn't.
But I didn't promise you that,
because I knew it would be a promise
I would never be able to keep.
My Heart Was Taken By You,
Broken By You And Now
Is In Pieces Because Of You
It hurts to breathe
because every breath I take
proves I can't live without you.
Never Say
" I love you "
if you don't really care,
never talk about feeling
if they aren't really there.
Never hold my hand
if you're going to break my heart.
Never say you're to,
if you never plan to start.
Never look into my eyes
if all you do is lie.
Never say hello,
if you really mean goodbye.
If you really mean forever,
then say you will try.
Never say forever
' cause forever makes me cry.
As Part Of You Has Grown In Me,
Together Forever Shall We Be,
Never Apart Maybe In Distance
But Not In Heart.
The greatest pain that comes from love
is loving someone you can never have.
The stupidest mistake in life
is thinking the one who hurt you the most,
won't hurt you again.
Love is unconditional,
relationships are not.
For all sad words of tongue and pen,
the saddest are these,
It might have been.
To fall in love is awfully simple,
but to fall out of love is simply awful.
The worst feeling in the world
is giving all the love you have
and knowing it will never be returned.
There is one pain I often feel
which you will never know
because it is caused
by the absence of you.
The Decision
hello guys, its me again.. so, how was my day today? i can say it was a bus day at mom's restaurant today and after that i went home to meet my beloved students... Then i called his aunt, i was asking help so that i can give back his things... there are a lot of his things inside my house and i don't wish to say it here one by one, but when i picked p those things and placed it inside a box and some plastics , i realized there are to much to give it back. I already packed it up all on Sunday... 2 days has passed an i see too much that make me remind of him.... Its like a broken glass and i have to put the pieces of glass one by one... He was part of my life and of course its not as easy an ABC to forget all and to pretend like it was nothing and yet when i though of all the memory we had, i feel sad to let it go... Maybe there is another way to set things right. well of course there is another way but perhaps right now is not the good time to set things right. Maybe 2 years later and maybe 10 and even maybe 13 , i dont know. I just wish that you can have a better life and maybe find another girl to replace me in your heart.
Today, after i went back to meet my best friend, i try my best to change everything in my room (actually i started to make my room look different since Sunday). I wrapped mt table with the present paper i bought at KK on Saturday, i hide all the stuff( for instance my frame where i put a lot of my picture with him ) in a new box that i bought on Saturday, change a new position of bed, cupboard and my table, change a new windows's sheet . And i feel much much better...
I knew day after day , i might see, hear, touch and feel something that would make me remind of him. I didn't say that i din't love him anymore, No!.Its just that i don't want to feel the same way as i felt on the 3rd January 2010. Isn't it so hard to say " sorry " and ask for an apology? Instead, he acted and said like nothing happened. But that is the past, i am looking forward right now. Yang, if you are reading this, i hope you understand.
We had never contacted each other as always as before. We seldom talk,chat and even sms. Maybe today is the last day i received message from him and i want to share with you guys.
I sent this message to him ( which i write it myself ):
Dear Sam,
Sharon wants to keep you as her pieces in her life. Answer the question below honestly because Sharon wants to save it for her best memory in life.
1. If you want to pick a fruit for Sharon . What fruit would it be?
2. What do you hate the most about Sharon?
3. What do you like the most about Sharon?
4.Give one word best describe Sharon?
5.You wish to be Sharon's_________?
And this is what he replied me:
If you want to pick a fruit for Sharon . What fruit would it be?
Big Red Apple
2. What do you hate the most about Sharon?
Stoned headed, ignorant, selfish, rebellious attitude.
3. What do you like the most about Sharon?
Her passion to love me,
cry on me,
the way she smile and laugh,
the willingness to change,
hardworking,
a Christian.
4.Give one word best describe Sharon?
Duality
5.You wish to be Sharon's Life's Boymate?
and then i replied him:
Thank you :)
This is my decision and so long ......
Today, after i went back to meet my best friend, i try my best to change everything in my room (actually i started to make my room look different since Sunday). I wrapped mt table with the present paper i bought at KK on Saturday, i hide all the stuff( for instance my frame where i put a lot of my picture with him ) in a new box that i bought on Saturday, change a new position of bed, cupboard and my table, change a new windows's sheet . And i feel much much better...
I knew day after day , i might see, hear, touch and feel something that would make me remind of him. I didn't say that i din't love him anymore, No!.Its just that i don't want to feel the same way as i felt on the 3rd January 2010. Isn't it so hard to say " sorry " and ask for an apology? Instead, he acted and said like nothing happened. But that is the past, i am looking forward right now. Yang, if you are reading this, i hope you understand.
We had never contacted each other as always as before. We seldom talk,chat and even sms. Maybe today is the last day i received message from him and i want to share with you guys.
I sent this message to him ( which i write it myself ):
Dear Sam,
Sharon wants to keep you as her pieces in her life. Answer the question below honestly because Sharon wants to save it for her best memory in life.
1. If you want to pick a fruit for Sharon . What fruit would it be?
2. What do you hate the most about Sharon?
3. What do you like the most about Sharon?
4.Give one word best describe Sharon?
5.You wish to be Sharon's_________?
And this is what he replied me:
If you want to pick a fruit for Sharon . What fruit would it be?
Big Red Apple
2. What do you hate the most about Sharon?
Stoned headed, ignorant, selfish, rebellious attitude.
3. What do you like the most about Sharon?
Her passion to love me,
cry on me,
the way she smile and laugh,
the willingness to change,
hardworking,
a Christian.
4.Give one word best describe Sharon?
Duality
5.You wish to be Sharon's Life's Boymate?
and then i replied him:
Thank you :)
This is my decision and so long ......
Sunday, January 10, 2010
My Heart
hi guys, hehehe. I've been writing twice to update my blog today... Rajinnya.I should be serious by now, ok... Today, right now, i want to tell you guys and also to share what i've been through in my relationship...and yes, i have to say in a relationship especially between girl and boy - companionship. Me and him had been together for years and yet we broke up twice when we were together. that Broke up was because of misunderstanding, miscommunication and a lot. For instance, he disturbed me a lot and i can't even focus on my study, he controlled me too much on what i can do and what i can't do. hmm... guys, i'd been trying to make difference in my relationship everytime we had a problem,we discussed, we shared, we laughed and yet in the middle we argued and silent for a quite sometime, but believe me making difference is not easy. Its not easy to change someone and sometimes we are the one who need to change instead of others.But i did change, there a lot of different between the past " Sharon" than the present " Sharon ". i loved him more, i showed so much love to him in term of words and actions. And he realized it too. do you want to know how was i long time ago when we were together in the first one and two years? i'm a bad girl, i admit. he can only heard me say "I love you " once in a blue moon. And when he said " i love you " i used to say " yes, i know... you don't have to say that all the time ". And he commented me that i was cool, too cool to love someone. well yeah, i was...
you see the love above? my heart had been through all of that. First, from a complete heart.
To this - a heart full of scars because of love.
To this - healing hearts.
yes, love is what you say it is. You say it sucks? yes it is. you say it sweet? yes, it is. You say it terrible? and yes it is! i talked and discussed with my mom today, we toled her about my relationship with my bf, i told what he did to me and i told what his mom said about me. And my mom felt so bad and i also told her that we'd broke up again and she said this time my decision is right. its correct... so long .... its good to be single again and yet its complicated.
you see the love above? my heart had been through all of that. First, from a complete heart.
To this - a heart full of scars because of love.
To this - healing hearts.
yes, love is what you say it is. You say it sucks? yes it is. you say it sweet? yes, it is. You say it terrible? and yes it is! i talked and discussed with my mom today, we toled her about my relationship with my bf, i told what he did to me and i told what his mom said about me. And my mom felt so bad and i also told her that we'd broke up again and she said this time my decision is right. its correct... so long .... its good to be single again and yet its complicated.
Saturday, January 9, 2010
Making A Dfference
guys, its the 10th January of 2010... Do you wish to make a difference in your life? its the 10th of 2010 but its not too late to make a difference, because nothing is too late until its over....Guys,according to the book i have shared in the previous page... Difference is the opportunity to take the time each day to acknowledge the beauty around us, to appreciate the amazing people who tough us, and to leave the world a better place each day through our thought, words and actions.. You know what i hope you and me are making difference each day by sharing ourself and our gifts with grace and ease with all those who come into my life...
So, here it goes the story in this book : ( i won't tell you the whole story ok? i mean from A to Z, but i'll summarize it and adapt it a little bit )
I've lived in New York city for all my seventeen years and can't imagine living anywhere else.
It was a cold November day, and New York City was still reeling from devastation of sepetember 11. All the members of my soccer team were glad to have an excuse to get out of school. It was the first game of the year and we had suffered a horrible defeat; still we were just excited to be starting a new season and a new year. We were twenty high-school girls walking and laughing through the streets of the Bronx. We knew we will having a long way to get home . To amuse ourselves and pass the time, we began to sing. Various genres of music filled the train's car, from Bob Dylan to Christina Aguilera . Eventhough only one of us could really sing, we all sang along as loudly as possible : what we lacked in musical talent we made up for on volume and enthusiasm. I wish i could freeze that moment: being with friends, feeling happy and not thinking about anything else.It was an amazing feeling that got even better as the train moved o.
suddenly, an old man entered the car from the subway platform, all our voices stopped simultaneously. The old man's clothes were tattered and his face was covered with a stubbly beard. \in his hand, he held a Styrofoam coffee cup emblazoned with " I Love NY". despite his shabby appearance, he carried himself with dignity. He spoke softly, but his voice projected through the car. " hello, ladies and gentlemen. I hope everyone is staying warm and healthy this winter. I am going to sing a couple of my favourite songs for you during your trip. please listen , and i hope you enjoy.". No one on the train looked u. Most people slid down behind their newspaper of foreign sleep but we girls watched him carefully. As his lips parted and began to sing " Joy to the World," we were carried away his eloquent voice and presence that we found ourselves chiming right in. After we had finish, we heard clapping and looked around to see that the people who had been in their own worlds a few moment before had now crossed over to ours to listen and marvel at this rare moment.and for his final song, he choose something that was sure to move everyone " God Bless America "
rag through the subway train and out of the station where we stopped. Many people left their own cars to come and see what was happening in ours - and join us. Many sang and this medley of voices and unity of spirit, was real and marvelous. Its significance became clearest to me when i noticed a woman holding a baby in her arms, singing through the tears that were streaming down her cheeks.
The power of this moment will be with me forever . A moment when a group of strangers, all New Yokers, tough and jaded, connected with a group of high-school girls and ragtag homeless person, and allowed their voices-and their hearts-to be as one.
The End.
Now guys, if you were there? would you do the same thing as the writer? really, Once we discover how to appreciate the timeless values in our daily experiences, we can enjoy the best things in life...This i personal reflection from the first story... So, make a different, to appreciate everything in our life from the small and useless values to th big and useful values...
So, here it goes the story in this book : ( i won't tell you the whole story ok? i mean from A to Z, but i'll summarize it and adapt it a little bit )
I've lived in New York city for all my seventeen years and can't imagine living anywhere else.
It was a cold November day, and New York City was still reeling from devastation of sepetember 11. All the members of my soccer team were glad to have an excuse to get out of school. It was the first game of the year and we had suffered a horrible defeat; still we were just excited to be starting a new season and a new year. We were twenty high-school girls walking and laughing through the streets of the Bronx. We knew we will having a long way to get home . To amuse ourselves and pass the time, we began to sing. Various genres of music filled the train's car, from Bob Dylan to Christina Aguilera . Eventhough only one of us could really sing, we all sang along as loudly as possible : what we lacked in musical talent we made up for on volume and enthusiasm. I wish i could freeze that moment: being with friends, feeling happy and not thinking about anything else.It was an amazing feeling that got even better as the train moved o.
suddenly, an old man entered the car from the subway platform, all our voices stopped simultaneously. The old man's clothes were tattered and his face was covered with a stubbly beard. \in his hand, he held a Styrofoam coffee cup emblazoned with " I Love NY". despite his shabby appearance, he carried himself with dignity. He spoke softly, but his voice projected through the car. " hello, ladies and gentlemen. I hope everyone is staying warm and healthy this winter. I am going to sing a couple of my favourite songs for you during your trip. please listen , and i hope you enjoy.". No one on the train looked u. Most people slid down behind their newspaper of foreign sleep but we girls watched him carefully. As his lips parted and began to sing " Joy to the World," we were carried away his eloquent voice and presence that we found ourselves chiming right in. After we had finish, we heard clapping and looked around to see that the people who had been in their own worlds a few moment before had now crossed over to ours to listen and marvel at this rare moment.and for his final song, he choose something that was sure to move everyone " God Bless America "
rag through the subway train and out of the station where we stopped. Many people left their own cars to come and see what was happening in ours - and join us. Many sang and this medley of voices and unity of spirit, was real and marvelous. Its significance became clearest to me when i noticed a woman holding a baby in her arms, singing through the tears that were streaming down her cheeks.
The power of this moment will be with me forever . A moment when a group of strangers, all New Yokers, tough and jaded, connected with a group of high-school girls and ragtag homeless person, and allowed their voices-and their hearts-to be as one.
The End.
Now guys, if you were there? would you do the same thing as the writer? really, Once we discover how to appreciate the timeless values in our daily experiences, we can enjoy the best things in life...This i personal reflection from the first story... So, make a different, to appreciate everything in our life from the small and useless values to th big and useful values...
2010 Inspiration
hi guys...
Its been so log that i didn't update my blog... Today, i don't know why i get up the nerve to write my blog again. i thought about sharing something that is very valuable to me - a book. A book that i'd bought ysterday and a book that i've been looking for so long...
This book a lovingly compiled and painstakingly profound work detailing the possibilities of the human spirit. It shoe us in story after story how we can make this world a better place-and not merely wish to do it.
Guys, do you think that a story in a book can change someone's thought , personalities ? that it can inspires you to be more happy, more confident and more caring. My answer is "YES" and if your answer is "No", then i suggest you yo stop reading this cause this is not what you trying to read... Why did i say so because even people have to depend on book to get knowledge so that they can be good in term of knowledge and upgrade themselves,so why can't a book's content change someone's thought in term of relationship?
I'm keen to read and buy this book because of my English teacher - Madam Mathilda, who had read some story inside this book that touched my heart deeply.... And, last night after i had read th introduction and acknowledgement of this book,i know i need this book.
I'm holding a very special book that i hope to carry its messages to you guys... I hope you guys can realize and forward the experience of reading to your friends....That you can use the inspiration, understanding and lovewithis these page to make your world a little bit better every day.
Its been so log that i didn't update my blog... Today, i don't know why i get up the nerve to write my blog again. i thought about sharing something that is very valuable to me - a book. A book that i'd bought ysterday and a book that i've been looking for so long...
This book a lovingly compiled and painstakingly profound work detailing the possibilities of the human spirit. It shoe us in story after story how we can make this world a better place-and not merely wish to do it.
Guys, do you think that a story in a book can change someone's thought , personalities ? that it can inspires you to be more happy, more confident and more caring. My answer is "YES" and if your answer is "No", then i suggest you yo stop reading this cause this is not what you trying to read... Why did i say so because even people have to depend on book to get knowledge so that they can be good in term of knowledge and upgrade themselves,so why can't a book's content change someone's thought in term of relationship?
I'm keen to read and buy this book because of my English teacher - Madam Mathilda, who had read some story inside this book that touched my heart deeply.... And, last night after i had read th introduction and acknowledgement of this book,i know i need this book.
I'm holding a very special book that i hope to carry its messages to you guys... I hope you guys can realize and forward the experience of reading to your friends....That you can use the inspiration, understanding and lovewithis these page to make your world a little bit better every day.
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